Don't know what to do

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Iv just found out I'm pregnant with No3, not planned at all, failed contraception. I have a 7 and 8yr old. My DH is 46 and he has an elder child 19 from previous. He's always said no more children after our 2nd. He thinks a termination would be best as we are not financially stable, our current children would loose out, we don't have the support we did with my first 2, he is also worrying about his age. But I just don't know if I can go through with it. Kids are always asking for a little Brother or Sister. He's an amazing dad. I'm terrified about having another one but I'm even more terrified about having a termination, and regretting it further down the line. We need to make a joint decision but at the moment we are in 2 different minds. Anyone else been in this /similar situation?

How far gone are you?

5/6 weeks

You haven’t written any reasons that you want another child (a fourth for your DH!), but you have written lots about why it’s a bad idea.

If you do a termination, regret and you might resent your husband later on. This is how I see it.
You know better how you feel. Don’t do any rushed decision.