I am 39, my cycles are normally 28 days. My last cycle was 32 days which was odd - I had my period for 2 or 3 days and super super light from may 12 to 15. This cycle I was later at 36 day -started barely even spotting on Monday, Tuesday some tiny bleeding a tiny amount of blood for maybe one tampon, and even tinier spotting today. During this most recent bleed, I had intense sharp pain in my lower pelvis for a few mins and then the spotting started, since the bleed I had mild cramping on one side, but the boobs felt relief and my nausea stopped. Today I am exhausted and very nauseas again. I took two tests on Monday of this week and they were negative, had a blood test turn up negative and again today I took a test and it was negative.
Last month after that light period, I took a couple tests and they were negative. I have been extremely bloated and puffy in my lower abs to the point I can no longer wear any of my pants, my breasts are heavier, sore and larger to the point my boyfriend keeps asking me if I am pregnant, I have been so nauseas on and off to the point i have been taking natural anti nausea medication, i have never been so exhausted in my life, i just started getting weird heart burn which I have never ever had.
A few months ago in April, I had full blood work done including hormones and there was nothing different or wrong.
I have a doctor's apt today and tomorrow I was scheduled for an ultrasound to cross some ts as nobody understands what is going on.
I am not trying to get pregnant... we would be happy but it would definitely not be planned so we both really want to know sooner than later if this could still be a pregnancy that is merely not showing up in tests yet.
Has anyone else experienced this? I though perimenopaus but my doctor basically laughed when i brough that up in April.