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Talk about every stage of pregnancy, from early symptoms to preparing for birth.

To throw in the towel and go it alone ?!

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mits25 · 17/05/2025 20:18

I’m finding my “d” p extremely uncaring and. It helpful what so ever!
im 36 weeks pregnant with my 3rd dd 8 ds almost 2
min hot huge and just so tired iron is low too which doesn’t help but not to sound dramatic im finding day to day jobs more difficult, he hasn’t helped with anything to get ready for our baby to arrive ! I’ve got everything clothes wise crib car seat etc he goes and helps family members move house but doesn’t do anything to prepare for our very wanted baby ! Despite me saying this or thay needs doing !

he does a sport twice a week and he will go regardless of anything ! There’s been a few times I’ve felt so unwell and he’s still gone !
I’ve got 3 weeks left till I have baby ( planned c section ) and he’s just said next weekend he’s off to see his mums new house 45 mins away ( not an option to take kids with him ) there’s just no thought of making anything easier or getting prepared together for our baby to arrive or even having the next few weekends free so I can relax ! I’m on the go all week, dd does an activity every evening of the week partner is out 2 evenings of the week. I just feel he could think of me more rather than other people ( at the moment ) I may be being unreasonable but needed to rant ! No point saying anything to him as nothing changes ! Just needed to vent I think! Xx

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mits25 · 17/05/2025 20:21

I should have added he was out all day last weekend watching sport so not as if he can’t go anywhere I just feel he’s doing nothing to help me

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mits25 · 17/05/2025 21:21

Hopeful bump x

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PashaMinaMio · 17/05/2025 21:27

Hes checked out.
You are not in a relationship with him anymore.
Get your “ducks in a row” get paperwork and bank statements gathered, passports too and sling your hook. You might as well because he clearly won’t be bothered.

mits25 · 17/05/2025 22:04

That’s exactly how it feels x

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mits25 · 18/05/2025 17:58

It has really annoyed me today I’m so tired big felt sick all day and the thought that he doesn’t give a shit is upsetting !

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