Bf wants to go abroad when I’ll be heavily pregnant. I’ve said to him you can’t actually expect to go still Ill need you here to help and support me he said it’ll be two weeks you’ll be fine. I don’t know if I’m being unreasonable? He’ll be going with his dad but I feel like it’s just the wrong time. It’s not like this pregnancy has come out of nowhere either he’s been trying to get me pregnant the past few months, before his holiday was even a thought. I’ve also had two chemical pregnancies before this one and hes told me many occasions how much he wants to be a dad. And now it’s happening he seems to think going on his holiday is a good idea? Turns out his holiday wasn’t even actually booked, he knew i was pregnant and I think has gotten his father to book it since. Any advice? Am I being unreasonable. I don’t know what to do. I did say to my partner I don’t feel like it’s the right time now but said hes happy and wants the baby. I feel like no one else would do this to their partner they’d want to be there to support them incase anything happened but he just wants to go on his holiday. I can’t help but feel like this sets the tone for how parenting might be, I’m constantly going to have to do the heavy lifting while he does what he likes. I’ve explained to him he needs to prioritise and being a parent means making sacrifices, but he said he’s still going. And when I spoke to him about it again today told me to just get rid of it. Said he’s not putting up with me like this for 9 months.