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SassyPeach · 06/04/2025 20:12

Hey, please no judgment (even thought I know it probably will be) but just looking for some advice. I have just found out I am pregnant but there is two potential dads. Back story is my ex had an affair and left me but has since ended that and is living in our house while it is up for sale. I started casually dating after 7 months and met a guy I really jelled with. We slept together on the 16th March which was during my fertile week, but I went and got the morning after pill. A week later me and my ex went to a mutual friends party and when we came home ended up sleeping together. I didn’t get the morning after pill but it wasn’t my fertile week. Basically what are the chances of it being the first guys as it was my fertile week but I took the morning after pill? My last period started on the 3rd March so would work out I’m 5 weeks tomorrow. I’ve looked into the prenatal dna tests but not sure how accurate they are. Thanks in advance for any advice or help.

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GrowingAndGrowingPleaseHelpICantStopGrowing · 06/04/2025 20:23

Prenatal DNA tests are going to be significantly more accurate than whatever anyone here has to say. Wishing you the best!

Lulu89x · 06/04/2025 20:25

Unfortunately it’s too close to say. But if you slept with the first guy during the fertile week then there’s a very high possibility it’s his.

Morning after pill doesn’t work if you’ve already ovulated. You’ll have to get a DNA test

good luck.

Mrsttcno1 · 06/04/2025 20:32

I’d assume it’s first guys if in fertile week because the morning after pill does not work if you have already ovulated, so if you ovulated the day you slept with #1 then the pill didn’t do anything, it was too late.

You do need a DNA test to be sure though.

SaveMeFromMyBoobs · 06/04/2025 20:34

A week is way too close to say. Scans etc can be a week out, cycles and ovulation dates can also easily be out by a week.

You need a DNA test. Prenatal non invasive ones are good but not this early and expensive. After birth ones cheaper and more definitive but extend the uncertainty.

emmatcc1 · 06/04/2025 20:44

It’s 50/50

ToKittyornottoKitty · 06/04/2025 20:46

Way too close to say. You’ve not done anything wrong sleeping with either of these guys so just be 100% upfront with them that it’s 50/50

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