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Pregnancy

Talk about every stage of pregnancy, from early symptoms to preparing for birth.

38+3 and my bump has disappeared?

8 replies

Aismixx · 05/04/2025 20:13

I'm 38+3 and my bump has majorly disappeared?! Can't even tell that I'm pregnant when sitting down and only looking about 18 weeks when standing.

I've had a lot of Braxton Hicks but nothing that has went anywhere.

My first birth was an induction so I don't really know what im looking out for.

It's obviously dropped but to almost disappear? Baby is harder to feel and has been quite a lazy baby throughout so would love reassuring but don't want to waste EOU time if it's something trivial.

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Zeitumschaltung · 05/04/2025 20:16

If you have noticed an apparent difference in the frequency of movement I would go and get it checked out, better to be safe than sorry.

Offthefunkingchain · 05/04/2025 20:18

Most likely baby has just dropped ready for their entrance to the world, however it does sound like you are worried as you cannot feel baby as much. I would suggest giving your midwife/maternity hospital a ring and just discuss your fears - even if it turns out that everything is fine they would still rather check on you and baby.

thehonscupboard · 05/04/2025 20:18

For your own piece of mind give them a call! They will want you to! I constantly bothered midwives over trivial things and they never made me feel silly for it, even though everything was fine, they said better to check.

anonny55 · 05/04/2025 20:29

This happened to me. Please call maternity. My baby’s 5 weeks now and here safely but if your feeling Any difference at all in movements GET CHECKED! Rather be safe x

Aismixx · 05/04/2025 20:46

@anonny55 did you need induction?

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PyongyangKipperbang · 05/04/2025 20:47

I have had 6 kids with various issues in pregnancy and no one has ever made me feel that I was wasting their time. Every time I was assured that it is always to get checked.

anonny55 · 06/04/2025 19:57

No I wasn’t induced as I had an elective section booked for 39+3 anyway and they only did them one day a week in my hospital with no space to bring it ahead. I went in to get a ctg monitoring every other day instead. You can always decline induction if you don’t want one :)

Maraudingmarauders · 06/04/2025 19:58

I’d get checked in case you’ve lost your waters and not noticed - I ended up with an emergency c section at 42weeks and when they cut me open baby was bone dry. I’ve no idea when or where they went. He had an infection as a result and we had to be on antibiotics for a few days (fine now but could have been nasty)

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