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Struggling TTC/Loss /Mental health

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Brown1994 · 12/03/2025 06:46

Just feeling disheartened, i know I ovulated on a specific date , confirmed with ovulation strip, as you can see BD delays before and then 4 days straight.
Don't know whether I am 7dpo or more , but getting negative easy are home 10mui .
Would it be showing?

BACK STORY.

Had to TFMR, in August at 18 weeks due to turner's syndrome and fetal hydrops , we had been trying for 4 years and was going to be our first born 😢

I so badly need to see those 2 lines and be a mum
#7DPO

Struggling TTC/Loss /Mental health
Struggling TTC/Loss /Mental health
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LaTable · 12/03/2025 06:54

7 days is too early, a lot of people don't even see a line even at 10dpo.
This doesn't mean you're out, just means you're stressing yourself out testing early.
Fingers crossed for you x

Blue2020 · 12/03/2025 06:57

So sorry for your loss.

I think 7dpo is too early, you could have ovulated on that night of that day so only really 6dpo. I tested at 9dpo with an easy at home and it was negative, then tested at 11dpo with a first response and that test was positive but feint.

remaininghopeful23 · 12/03/2025 08:25

So sorry to hear of your loss.
7DPO is usually too early to get a BFP. 10-11DPO was earliest I saw one.
You're covering all of your days leading up to ovulation, but I would also consider intercourse the day of and even after ovulation. Just to know you've definitely covered all your bases. Ovulation is usually the next day after LH peak, but can be up to 36 hours so I'd get at least another day in there if you can. Thinking of you OP.

Marmite1992 · 12/03/2025 09:41

Brown1994 · 12/03/2025 06:46

Just feeling disheartened, i know I ovulated on a specific date , confirmed with ovulation strip, as you can see BD delays before and then 4 days straight.
Don't know whether I am 7dpo or more , but getting negative easy are home 10mui .
Would it be showing?

BACK STORY.

Had to TFMR, in August at 18 weeks due to turner's syndrome and fetal hydrops , we had been trying for 4 years and was going to be our first born 😢

I so badly need to see those 2 lines and be a mum
#7DPO

I'm so sorry for what you went through. My only advice would be to try and avoid stress. I was having trouble conceiving after a missed miscarriage, was obsessively using ovulation tests and measuring my temperature. I paid to see a private consultant and he told me to stop it all as it causes so much stress and that can mess up chances of becoming pregnant. I stopped doing it all (was really hard I felt desperate and so sad)
And it worked, I was pregnant 2 months later and looking back I wished I had lived my life and not let it consume me. Easier said than done for sure. I wish you all the luck. He said to me if you got pregnant before you will get pregnant again

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Brown1994 · 12/03/2025 10:56

LaTable · 12/03/2025 06:54

7 days is too early, a lot of people don't even see a line even at 10dpo.
This doesn't mean you're out, just means you're stressing yourself out testing early.
Fingers crossed for you x

Fingers crossed , yeah it's hard to tell yourself not to test lol

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Brown1994 · 12/03/2025 10:57

Blue2020 · 12/03/2025 06:57

So sorry for your loss.

I think 7dpo is too early, you could have ovulated on that night of that day so only really 6dpo. I tested at 9dpo with an easy at home and it was negative, then tested at 11dpo with a first response and that test was positive but feint.

Thank you That gives me hope x

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Brown1994 · 12/03/2025 10:59

remaininghopeful23 · 12/03/2025 08:25

So sorry to hear of your loss.
7DPO is usually too early to get a BFP. 10-11DPO was earliest I saw one.
You're covering all of your days leading up to ovulation, but I would also consider intercourse the day of and even after ovulation. Just to know you've definitely covered all your bases. Ovulation is usually the next day after LH peak, but can be up to 36 hours so I'd get at least another day in there if you can. Thinking of you OP.

We did have sex that night will do that now 😅 and thank you for your advice will do

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Brown1994 · 12/03/2025 11:14

Marmite1992 · 12/03/2025 09:41

I'm so sorry for what you went through. My only advice would be to try and avoid stress. I was having trouble conceiving after a missed miscarriage, was obsessively using ovulation tests and measuring my temperature. I paid to see a private consultant and he told me to stop it all as it causes so much stress and that can mess up chances of becoming pregnant. I stopped doing it all (was really hard I felt desperate and so sad)
And it worked, I was pregnant 2 months later and looking back I wished I had lived my life and not let it consume me. Easier said than done for sure. I wish you all the luck. He said to me if you got pregnant before you will get pregnant again

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Thank you, I had that attuide for previous 2 months and my mind has slip back again.

If I don't get BFP this month , I will get back into that headspace

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