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41, 2 kids and unexpected pregnancy

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Crazyballerina8 · 13/02/2025 23:48

Hello!

I’m 41 and just found out I’m pregnant with my 3rd. We have a huge wedding planned for June and I know my partner doesn’t want another. We have been using contraception (condoms) on and off with no issues until now!

I don’t know what to do!

help!

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everychildmatters · 13/02/2025 23:54

@Crazyballerina8 If you were using condoms "on and off", I'm not sure you can be surprised that you're pregnant? Unless I'm missing something?

sunshineandshowers40 · 13/02/2025 23:55

How old are your DC?

Bobbie12345 · 14/02/2025 01:13

So not an entirely ‘unexpected’ pregnancy if you were sexually active with inconsistent condom use. Given that you are a grown woman with two children who presumably understands the birds and the bees.

AnOldCynic · 14/02/2025 01:15

A termination? What's the wedding got to do with it?

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