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Potty shot! Boy or girl ?!

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esmelly · 13/01/2025 19:24

Hi,
I had my private gender scan a month or so ago now, and I never thought to ask for gender confirmation at my 20week scan.
We were told the gender, did a gender reveal and now looking back on the video of the scan I feel like they could've been wrong?
Really don't want to have to pay for another private scan but feeling like I may have to lol.
Thoughts on weather you think it's a baby girl or boy please !! Stressing ! Haha

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Potty shot! Boy or girl ?!
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Flopsy145 · 13/01/2025 19:36

I would say boy from that? Check your notes from the scan as they sometimes write the sex.

esmelly · 13/01/2025 19:40

Flopsy145 · 13/01/2025 19:36

I would say boy from that? Check your notes from the scan as they sometimes write the sex.

We got told the gender, and its in the report for the private scan. They never checked the gender at all at my 20 week scan. Im so lost haha

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ShalalaIa · 13/01/2025 19:43

its a boy by the look of it. What sex did they tell you?

esmelly · 13/01/2025 19:50

ShalalaIa · 13/01/2025 19:43

its a boy by the look of it. What sex did they tell you?

We've been told girl haha. Had a gender reveal and everything !

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Amicompletelyinsane · 13/01/2025 19:53

They say the three little white lines are a girl. My girl looked like this. My boys were clearly boys

Flopsy145 · 13/01/2025 19:56

esmelly · 13/01/2025 19:40

We got told the gender, and its in the report for the private scan. They never checked the gender at all at my 20 week scan. Im so lost haha

That to me looks like boy bits, or a very very swollen girl. What gestation were you at time of scan? Sometimes early girls can be very swollen

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esmelly · 13/01/2025 19:56

Amicompletelyinsane · 13/01/2025 19:53

They say the three little white lines are a girl. My girl looked like this. My boys were clearly boys

I feel like I can't see 3 white lines! I just see a bulge on some of the pictures and nothing on the others haha, we've bought so many girly things and now we've not got anymore scans until I give birth in April haha. So it's just a waiting game & hoping she comes out a girl haha

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Flopsy145 · 13/01/2025 19:57

esmelly · 13/01/2025 19:56

I feel like I can't see 3 white lines! I just see a bulge on some of the pictures and nothing on the others haha, we've bought so many girly things and now we've not got anymore scans until I give birth in April haha. So it's just a waiting game & hoping she comes out a girl haha

You'll have a 36 week one and on that my boys balls were bloody massive and very obviously there!

itwasmadeofelm · 13/01/2025 20:01

Your NHS 20 week scan isn't a gender scan, it's an abnormality scan.

esmelly · 13/01/2025 20:02

I've been told I'll only have my 12 week scan & 20 week scan as I'm low risk. So unless there's any issues in the future with growth or position I won't have anymore scans from now on! So thinking about booking a 4D scan haha

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Thornybush · 13/01/2025 20:03

Have you got a nub photo from the 12 Week scan?

esmelly · 13/01/2025 20:05

itwasmadeofelm · 13/01/2025 20:01

Your NHS 20 week scan isn't a gender scan, it's an abnormality scan.

I know, that's why I didn't ask them to confirm gender. I was just wanting to know baby was okay so never crossed my mind but now I wish I asked them to double check.

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ToBeOrNotToBee · 13/01/2025 20:06

That's a girl

esmelly · 13/01/2025 20:07

Thornybush · 13/01/2025 20:03

Have you got a nub photo from the 12 Week scan?

Nub wasn't visible in either of my 12 week scan photos x

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Keepsmiling2948 · 13/01/2025 20:08

I’d say girl, only in comparison to my 20 and 26 week scans of my DS. There was absolutely no doubt in those! It was a good thing we wanted to know what we were having as when she placed the scanner on my belly it was coincidentally a potty shot and I burst out laughing it was so obvious. Do both scans say girl?

esmelly · 13/01/2025 20:12

Keepsmiling2948 · 13/01/2025 20:08

I’d say girl, only in comparison to my 20 and 26 week scans of my DS. There was absolutely no doubt in those! It was a good thing we wanted to know what we were having as when she placed the scanner on my belly it was coincidentally a potty shot and I burst out laughing it was so obvious. Do both scans say girl?

Only my 16 week private scan said girl. Never confirmed at my 20 week scan so I'm only going off the gender scan. Felt like it was really rushed and on the video you can see they label it literally as soon as they look between the legs. I understand they're professionals but things do go wrong haha have had a parent at my work have the same thing happen to them this past week which I think has given me the paranoia. She got told girl at the private scan and boy at the 20 week NHS scan haha

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02tryingfor02 · 13/01/2025 20:17

That looks like a girl to me. My little girls scan was similar to this and I was adamant they'd got it wrong and she was a boy but as another poster said, girl bits can swell. My little boys scan looked totally different and was very clearly a little boy haha!

esmelly · 13/01/2025 20:19

02tryingfor02 · 13/01/2025 20:17

That looks like a girl to me. My little girls scan was similar to this and I was adamant they'd got it wrong and she was a boy but as another poster said, girl bits can swell. My little boys scan looked totally different and was very clearly a little boy haha!

Amazing !! Thank you so much definitely eased my mind a little bit haha, think we may just have a 4d scan in a couple of weeks anyways, and ask them to confirm then.

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Aarushi · 15/07/2025 17:35

Can guess gender@123

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Chocolateeggsarebetterthannormalchocolate · 15/07/2025 17:43

Im intrigued @esmelly... was it a boy or a girl?!

esmelly · 15/07/2025 17:44

Chocolateeggsarebetterthannormalchocolate · 15/07/2025 17:43

Im intrigued @esmelly... was it a boy or a girl?!

Hi, she’s a beautiful baby girl !! 3 months old now !

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Chocolateeggsarebetterthannormalchocolate · 15/07/2025 17:48

Aww congratulations 💓

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