9 weeks postpartum

[ella1998xx]

Is it normal to have a big belly 9 weeks after having a baby or should it have gone down by now I just feel really flabby and shit about myself

On my first I had a big belly for a long time afterwards it took me ages to shift the weight. I'm 5 weeks pp on my second and people are commenting on how fast I'm losing weight even though I do still have a big belly. So I would say yes it's normal.
Remember your body spent 9 months growing and changing to allow the baby to grow. it needs time