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2ww, bfn at 10dpo and crampy, am I out?

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Rainbowflower2024 · 26/08/2024 17:35

Hi all! I’m currently at 10dpo and have had a BFN. I am experiencing cramps as well. Would you say I’m out this month? Has anyone had a BFP after a BFN at 10dpo? Or experienced similar with cramps too? Thank you in advance!

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BeckyPfromLeeds · 26/08/2024 18:23

From what I know, 10DPO is actually quite early as the egg can implant between 6-12DPO so may not produce enough HCG for a test to detect until 14 DPO so there's still time. You're not out until AF arrives x x

Peonyyyy · 26/08/2024 19:31

I took an early detection test at 14DPO and it was negative, and I didn’t get a positive until a week after my period was due. So yes it can happen later - I am now 21 weeks. I know the wait is so hard!

Rainbowflower2024 · 26/08/2024 19:46

@BeckyPfromLeeds @Peonyyyy thank you both! So there is still hope! I’m so bloated and crampy as well today. Period due in 2 days so I’ll try and be patient!! Try being the main word 😂

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Ttclateinthegame · 23/04/2025 10:01

Ok, I need all your knowledge.
My husband had to work away for 2 weeks, which was through my fertile window! Although disappointed, I thought, at least I learn my about my body and cycle! (I have a 23 day cycle). We BD just before he went away late night 10th April. Then on 12th and 13th I got the smiley face!
I know sperm can live inside you for 5 days, but what are the chances, is it about slimmer?
i’m 2days late for a 23 day cycle, but BFN. I hope this all makes sense. Thank you.

note: i ovulated day 14. Which mean I have a short lateral phase, which doesn’t surprise me as periods are quite light; however I wonder if inoculated, he was always going to have a light cycle: its the unknown isn’t it

Rainbowflower2024 · 23/04/2025 14:04

@Ttclateinthegame hi! I got the smiley face 1 day after we did the deed! I thought I was out that month but I’m now in my third trimester so you do still have a chance! Good luck! X

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Ttclateinthegame · 23/04/2025 15:58

Oh congratulations! I bet your excited! Do you count soo from the first day you saw the smiley face or 2nd lol. I also didn’t realise you have to use sperm friend lube, so with that I feel I’m out the game. However my cycle is usually 23 days but I’m now 25 days and no period, but also no BFP.

did you do the deed any time after ovulating. Thanks for your help xx

Rainbowflower2024 · 23/04/2025 19:31

@Ttclateinthegame so I counted it from the first day of the static smiley! So first day of static smiley we actually didn’t do the deed but we did a lot before that. I did do the deed after too but when my LH was really low. I think it was like 2 days after! And thank you! Good luck and let me know how you get on! Fingers crossed for you! Xx

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Ttclateinthegame · 23/04/2025 22:10

How exciting. I’m v confused about everything to be honest.

i did the deed Thursday 10th v v late.
static face Saturday 12th and a lot of discharge and Sunday 13th.

my usually cycle is 23 days, but I believe I have a short LP, as my period is v light. (I used to be 28 days and a heavy period).

however I am now day 25 and no period but BFN.

its messing with my head 😭😭.

Lulu89x · 23/04/2025 22:48

Ttclateinthegame · 23/04/2025 22:10

How exciting. I’m v confused about everything to be honest.

i did the deed Thursday 10th v v late.
static face Saturday 12th and a lot of discharge and Sunday 13th.

my usually cycle is 23 days, but I believe I have a short LP, as my period is v light. (I used to be 28 days and a heavy period).

however I am now day 25 and no period but BFN.

its messing with my head 😭😭.

You may be in for a chance. My periods are very short (as short as 21 days to 29 days)

I DTD 4 days before ovulation. I’m now 26 weeks pregnant. Good luck

Rainbowflower2024 · 24/04/2025 08:10

@Ttclateinthegame i experienced a lot of discharge too a week after!!! I have my fingers crossed for you! It’s a waiting game now x

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Ttclateinthegame · 24/04/2025 08:23

Thank you! I have woken up and pretty sure AF is on its way! Got the intense dull ache 😭

Ttclateinthegame · 24/04/2025 18:41

I’m in the same boat not sure if I’m 10 or 11pm. My cycle is usually 23 days and I’m 26 days and no period but also BFN. So confusing! How are you feeling x

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