Pregnancy

[Jessyoxx]

Hi all. I’ve had 13 miscarriages and 1 ectopic. I found out I was pregnant last month and had an early scan in epau at 6 weeks. Heartbeat was seen and everything was as it should be. I’m now 8 weeks pregnant and have my 12 week scan in July. I’m just so worried and I’m looking for abit of reassurance if possible please

@Jessyoxx oh bless you, that's a hell of a lot to go through. Fantastic that little one is in the right place and has a heartbeat. Were your previous MCs all at relatively early gestation? I had three consecutive losses before my current pregnancy and that was bad enough! I can only imagine the anxiety you must be feeling. Have you been offered any MH support etc? Will you get another scan ahead of your 12wk one? There is a really supportive and active Pregnancy after Loss thread on here that you might like. I'll share the link in a mo. Keeping everything crossed for you that this is the one! 🙏🏼💕

https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/pregnancy/5071488-pregnancy-after-loss-part-2?reply=135978369&utm_campaign=reply&utm_medium=share

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@SnookyPook thank you so much for your help. My miscarriages were all very early on, before 6 weeks. I had 2 miscarriages that happened at 6 weeks but most of them were at 5 weeks, I’d take a pregnancy test and I’d start bleeding a couple of days later. My ectopic was 4 months ago, that was 7 weeks. That was traumatic. Me and my hubby have been trying for years and we’ve just had such bad luck. I’ve seen 3 different consultants and numerous tests and the cause for the miscarriages could not be found so that’s been frustrating also! I will be consultant led and I’ve been started on cyclogest until I’m 16 weeks and then I’ve got to go on aspirin. I’ve not been offered any other scans until my 12 week scan ❤️

@Jessyoxx again, so sorry you've had such a rough ride but it sounds really hopeful that actually this little one has already passed your previous milestones! Great that they've given the progesterone already and that you'll be consultant led. As previously mentioned, nothing will take away those nerves but just try to focus on one day at a time and hopefully this is the one!! 🙏🏼💕

@SnookyPook fingers crossed! Thank you so much for your support ❤️