Have I ruined the gender surprise? :(

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I’m so worried our gender surprise is ruined. We didn’t want to find out the sex. All of the time at our 20 Week scan yesterday we looked away at all the right bits and the sonographer was great. But then the two photos she gave me one looks like a penis…..

I’m so upset that there potentially is no surprise now.

What do you think? I’ve added a few photos.

I originally thought it could be cord but I think where I’ve circled green is cord so doesn’t leave for it to be much else….

The only thing is the other scan has a similar looking thing which I’ve circled too but HELP!

1st photo pic 1
2nd photo potential penis
3rd photo circled potential cord
4th photo is the thing that looks similar in the other pic (added both pics again for ref)

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So this isn't even your first baby- you know the joy of welcoming a child into the world and you're getting hung up on this?
In the nicest possible way- give your head a wobble and be grateful for a healthy baby- you're not a child who just found out Santa isn't real. You don't know what they will look like, you don't known what their personality will be like, you don't know what the relationship with your other children will be like- plenty of surprises to come

It does look like penis tbh but none of my sons ultrasounds looked like this so not sure.