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TMI have I hurt baby during sex

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Cocobellax · 04/06/2024 23:22

So me and DH had sex tonight, and I’m now 19 weeks pregnant and quite big !
anyways he had me bent over the sofa back behind me if that makes sense ( tmi I know ) but my back started hurting quite a lot, I suffer with lots of back ache in this pregnancy! And now I’m sat here stressed to the max that I could have hurt baby by bending ???!!!

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VolvoFan · 04/06/2024 23:28

Nope. Your baby is fine. But for the sake of your back, maybe try a less awkward position next time. Congratulations by the way!

flapjackfairy · 04/06/2024 23:31

your baby will be fine. Try not to catastrophise about it . But do.try to protect your back of course by being sensible if you are prone to back issues.

momtoboys · 04/06/2024 23:49

The baby is fine! Wait until you are 49 weeks and trying to have sex hoping it will bring on labor! 😉

SwordToFlamethrower · 05/06/2024 00:48

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Cocobellax · 05/06/2024 04:46

Thank you guys for making me feel better!
and to @SwordToFlamethrower no need to be rude love. Just so you know I am a scientist as a profession ironically and have studied enough biology books in my life.
I do not at all think the penis can touch the baby, that’s not what I even said? I was worried that by bending for that period of time i may have hurt the baby, and on a platform such as this, there’s no need to attack someone for asking a question.

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MillshakePickle · 05/06/2024 04:50

Baby will be fine. Just protect yourself. Ligaments and the lot are looser spring pregnancy because your body is producing relaxin. Also, your centre of gravity will change.

Have a look at safe sex positions during the second trimesters as well as the third if you have gained a lot of weight already.

MillshakePickle · 05/06/2024 04:50

MillshakePickle · 05/06/2024 04:50

Baby will be fine. Just protect yourself. Ligaments and the lot are looser spring pregnancy because your body is producing relaxin. Also, your centre of gravity will change.

Have a look at safe sex positions during the second trimesters as well as the third if you have gained a lot of weight already.

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idontknowaboutyou · 05/06/2024 06:11

Baby is protected in the sack but better to find a comfy position going forward.

FTMaz · 05/06/2024 15:17

baby will be fine…but fair play to you even missionary was a struggle for me 😂

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