AIBU?
A school friend that I have hugely drifted from is having her hen do very soon. I was asked to be a bridesmaid for her abroad wedding 2 weeks after my due date so I had to politely decline the invite.
I have made every effort to be at her hen party at 30 weeks pregnant, paying over £300 for the weekend.
I have messaged the other bridesmaids and hen to say that I will be there the Friday/Saturday but will head home when they all go on the night out Saturday as I can’t think of anything worse than being in bars/clubs. I’ve had a really rocky pregnancy with anemia, gest. diabetes and thought the effort would be appreciated but I’ve effectively been told to not attend by the bride. Almost making out that I’m lying because I haven’t spoken to her about how rough the pregnancy has been - but she’s never asked how we are?
Was my request massively unreasonable?
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Hen party pregnant drama
Eirym9 · 17/04/2024 05:28
PoppingTomorrow · 17/04/2024 06:11
will head home when they all go on the night out Saturday as I can’t think of anything worse than being in bars/clubs.
Just checking - you didn't actually say this, did you?
PoppingTomorrow · 17/04/2024 06:11
will head home when they all go on the night out Saturday as I can’t think of anything worse than being in bars/clubs.
Just checking - you didn't actually say this, did you?
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Eirym9 · 18/04/2024 04:02
So I did get a reply after 24 hours to say that I hadn’t informed her of how tough the pregnancy has been before this (she’d never asked either) and that telling me to just stay at home comes from a place of care…
I have replied to say I hope she has more sympathetic and understanding friends if she is ever pregnant one day.
The money is gone unfortunately but I suppose it’s a life lesson!
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