Hi
I had 4 pregnancies in quick succession. My youngest was born Jan 2023 via emergency c section (the rest were vaginal) A little while after myself and husband agreed no more babies, I got the IUD and he was on schedule to get a vasectomy. My c section overhang left me feeling really uncomfortable with my stomach and my abdominal muscles were extremely weak.
For my 36th birthday at the end of Jan I got a tummy tuck (in the UK) I was advised by my surgeon not to have any more children as it would impact the results and I’d need a revision, he said if I did have anymore to wait at least a year but it wouldn’t be anymore high risk than if I hadn’t had one. Obviously I did not plan to become pregnant at all because that’s thousands of pounds of work down the drain and if I knew I’d become pregnant I would have saved the surgery until after the baby.
Myself and husband had sex approx 2 weeks after surgery. I felt comfortable, wasn’t in any pain, had the IUD.
Then I realise I’m a few days late on my period, I think nothing of it because I have the IUD and that prevented pregnancy for me for 10 years from the age of 18 until 28, I didn’t think it was possible. A week late and I take a test fully anticipating it to be negative but I just want to ease my mind and it was positive!! This means I conceived exactly 2 weeks after my surgery which I didn’t even think was possible due to the surgery let alone with the IUD.
Now, I want to keep the baby, as does my husband. I understand that essentially my tummy tuck will have been all for nothing as the results will be impacted, but I’d rather lose the results/money that I spent than have an abortion of a child I can and want to love/provide for.
My only concern is the impacts this will have on the baby. I know I have to speak to a doctor, I’ve got a consultation Friday with my surgeon (although I can’t imagine he’s going to be pleased) it will take some time before I see a midwife as I’m not far enough along. I’m concerned primarily with will my body cope with being stretched so shortly after having all that area stitched up pretty extensively even recreating my belly button. Will that cause problems for the developing baby, will it cause issues for me such as the scars becoming undone etc?
Im just wondering if anybody else has experience with pregnancy after a tummy tuck