Hiya,
Last night, after 2 years and 8 months of trying we got our big fat positive 😭♥️
By LMP, I would be 7 weeks pregnant today. Clearblue digital said 2-3 weeks. Normal tests are giving a bright line before the urine has even passed the window. Super strong positive:
I (obviously) started to panic anyway given our journey plus previous loss and booked a reassurance scan for today. We went at 1pm and basically the outcome was a “pregnancy of unknown location”. There was just a small empty fluid filled sac.
Obviously this indicates
- Too early.
- Miscarriage.
- Ectopic.
I just don’t know how by dates it could be too early unless I ovulated really late (this wouldn’t necessarily be unusual for me as my cycles can vary massively)? I’m having an achey feeling (I think it’s usually more sharp/stabbing?) in my shoulder so now I’m convinced it’s an ectopic pregnancy. No other symptoms apart from really light cramping, slight headache, sore boobs. I now have to wait for bloods.
I guess I’m just basically asking has anyone been through this and everything been ok? And if you’ve had an ectopic and don’t mind, could you tel me what your symptoms were?
We were absolutely over the moon and now I just feel like I’ve made us worry, I’m scared about the fact we’ve tried for so long to finally get the result we wanted for it to all be going wrong already. But also concerned that obviously if it is somewhere else, that’s dangerous..
Thanks in advance ladies xxx