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Implantation bleeding

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Chhh · 01/02/2024 17:52

Is it possible to have implantation bleeding 3 days after intercourse. I remember I had a bleed on 21st of November after having intercourse with the boy on 17th of November. It lasted on and off bleeding until 26th of November I think. Don’t know if was normal period or not , but I have such bad anxiety just now about who the father is off my baby and just trying to get as much information as I can to ease my mind before my 12 week scan. Boy on 17th of November was a mistake and I know if there’s a chance it’s his and needing to tell people etc I’ll be heartbroken. I just really don’t know and this site seems to be so good at giving advice

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glasspaw · 01/02/2024 18:24

There’s not enough information here to tell. When did you get a positive test? When is your 12 week scan? Did you have any other partners around the same time (I’m assuming so but you’ve not said it explicitly).

Implantation bleeding is usually not heavy and usually doesn’t last that long. Some people don’t have or notice it at all.

glasspaw · 01/02/2024 18:27

Also implantation typically happens 8-10 days post ovulation, so if you have any cycle tracking data to refer to that might help you.

Chhh · 01/02/2024 18:28

I had intercourse with a boy ( 17th of November ) and intercourse with my current partner from the 20th of November most days up until late December. I had bleeding quite heavy on the 21st of November. Pretty sure it was on and off until 26th of November ( can’t really remember if was a normal period or not. Positive pregnancy test I got on the 23rd of December which was ( 1 - 2 weeks ) had an ultrasound on 19th January was told 7 weeks 6 days don’t know if they’re accurate or not. I’ve not had a letter for 12 week scan yet. I have really bad anxiety as I don’t feel like I can continue with this pregnancy if it’s not a baby to my current partner. And I feel like 12 weeks scan would be too late for termination options. Hope this helps

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Chhh · 01/02/2024 18:40

I had intercourse with a boy ( 17th of November ) and intercourse with my current partner from the 20th of November most days up until late December. I had bleeding quite heavy on the 21st of November. Pretty sure it was on and off until 26th of November ( can’t really remember if was a normal period or not. Positive pregnancy test I got on the 23rd of December which was ( 1 - 2 weeks ) had an ultrasound on 19th January was told 7 weeks 6 days don’t know if they’re accurate or not. I’ve not had a letter for 12 week scan yet. I have really bad anxiety as I don’t feel like I can continue with this pregnancy if it’s not a baby to my current partner. And I feel like 12 weeks scan would be too late for termination options. Hope this helps

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Ptfcangel · 01/02/2024 18:50

Hi,

i have noticed this if the third thread you’ve started on this topic recently.
All the responses have told you that it is very very likely that it is your current partner that you concieved with as you had a period after the mistake guy and didn’t sleep with him again.
if you still have concerns speak to a midwife about dating accuracy as you’re obviously not getting comfort from people telling you on here.
Youre all good OP it will be your partners baby you don’t need to keep stressing.

Ptfcangel · 01/02/2024 18:53

7 weeks and 6 days takes you right to the time of your last period aswell so it is after that you have concieved

glasspaw · 01/02/2024 18:53

Yeah the baby is your partners in that case. Don’t stress. Good luck with the rest of the pregnancy.

WhimsicalMoth · 01/02/2024 19:34

Sounds like the bleeding you had was a normal period in November.
I'd say the baby is almost certainly your partners.
Try not to worry.
I know how anxiety is, although not in the same circumstances. It's hard to get rid of the thoughts, even after reassurance x

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