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Pregnancy

Talk about every stage of pregnancy, from early symptoms to preparing for birth.

Early Pregnancy

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Emzzz89 · 05/01/2024 11:53

So just need to speak to someone as nobody knows I was pregnant or am pregnant.
I experienced a molar pregnancy back in 2021 which I had surgically removed, then was told I should not fall pregnant till a year of being monitored.
So at the end of last year we started trying again as I feel I'm getting older I didnt want to waste time (even though the molar and 3 previous miscarriages have scared me) I don't know when my last period started I'm guessing 1st week of November, but I got a positive on the 4th of December so I booked the next day to go to a private scan in fear of it being a Molar again. At the scan I saw just a empty sac and was told I'm around 4 weeks and to come back 2 weeks later. I was contacted by Epu saying to come in 4th of January so technically I would be around 8 weeks. This is where it gets confusing 😕 the first thing she said is well it looks like multiple eggs and I can see a pulse but not sure if it's yours of the embryos? I was like what do you mean you can't tell she said the pulse is alot slower then a embryos should be. Surely you can tell the difference? No? I'm just looking for someone who's maybe experienced something similar I'm just so confused and sad. I have been booked in for next Friday to rescan I had slight bleeding this morning when I wiped. Is this a start of another miscarriage or am I off with dates I just don't know 🥺

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Hiddenvoice · 05/01/2024 13:18

Sorry no advice here but didn’t want to read and run.
I think she didn’t want to say the baby heartbeat was slow incase it worried you. She may also not be 100% certain so the rescan for next week is a good idea.

I’m really sorry for your previous losses and hope this one works out.
I had bleeding at 4/5 weeks and then again at 8/9 weeks. I know the feeling of wanting to go to bathroom and constantly check things. I’d suggest trying to keep yourself busy and focussed on something. The bleeding in my pregnancy eased off and i’m now in the third trimester so not all bleeding ends badly.

Emzzz89 · 05/01/2024 13:33

@Hiddenvoice thankyou for your reply, congratulations on your pregnancy. I guess its the uncertainty of what's actually going on that's making it so hard for me nothing the midwife said made sense.
Luckily I have my DD that keeps me very busy.

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Ellsx6 · 22/06/2024 17:10

Emzzz89 · 05/01/2024 13:33

@Hiddenvoice thankyou for your reply, congratulations on your pregnancy. I guess its the uncertainty of what's actually going on that's making it so hard for me nothing the midwife said made sense.
Luckily I have my DD that keeps me very busy.

Hey, did you have a positive outcome?

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