Pregnant again

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eeowens · 05/12/2023 07:10

Hi everyone, looking for a bit of advice on here as dont have many people to talk to. Currently 5 months postpartum and have just found out im pregnant. This has come as a total surprise as was using protection after firstborn. I have this immense sense of guilt and worry as we have just moved into our first home which is on the small side.

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Puddle13 · 05/12/2023 07:17

@eeowens that must be a big shock. What is that you feel guilty about in terms of your house being on the small side?

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eeowens · 05/12/2023 07:23

Mostly guilty on my firstborn its a very strange feeling and hard to really understand myself. And more worry about our house as my son doesnt even have his own room so its just a sense of worry that we will have to move sooner than we would have thought we would as we planned to stay in this house for a maximum of 2 years but now that feels unachievable

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CurlewKate · 05/12/2023 07:32

Consider all your options carefully. Including termination.

Puddle13 · 05/12/2023 07:41

@eeowens I can see why you would feel that way. I would agree with the previous comment that now is the time to consider all of the options available and what is best for you and your family. I think whatever you decide to do there might be feelings of guilt. I really feel for you as it’s not an easy situation.

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