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Positive test after 2 mc

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Lkb189 · 24/10/2023 20:20

Kind of new to this so not sure I'm doing this properly I hope this is ok

I suffered a misscarrage last year in May then again in August this year and I have tested this month and got a positive and I'm trying to not to worry but I'm confused as to how far along I may be due to mc in August.

So I used to track my cycle but lost my phone and gave up tracking but this is kinda what's gone on for reference
I found out on the 18th of July I was pregnant started light bleeding on the 31st hospital said I should haven been at least 5 weeks but sadly no development and started heavy bleeding on 4th of August passed very large clot and bled until 10th of August I then had a 6 day period on the 30th of August till the 4th of September I then got a 3 day period on the 24th of September till the 27th. Then for some mad reason I decided to test the 21st of October and got a positive result on a cheep test so my question is how far on would that make me? My usual cycle is normally 26 to 29 days and my period last 4 to 5 days mostly 5 days, after the miscarriage my cycle appears to have shortened. Sorry for the long post head is spinning right now hope this make sense thanks everyone

Positive test after 2 mc
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MrsG2907 · 24/10/2023 20:30

Hey, we are so similar ! I think if you gauge it off an average 28 day cycle you are 4wks and 2days … I’m 4wks 3days and coming off the back of a miscarriage In July at 8 was and chemical in September. We were planning to have a break but my body clearly had other ideas. I also wasn’t tracking so I’m just basing it on an average cycle as this is what my GP does ( my cycle is normally 26 days and bleed for 4/5)
i hope this is a the time for you xxxxx

Lkb189 · 24/10/2023 20:38

Thank you that helps so much as I'm looking into booking privately for a scan for reassurance and my head is a bit clouded just now so couldn't work it out. Yes I had just said to my partner he was on a sex ban so we could have a little break evidently that didn't go well lol.

Fingers crossed all goes well for you it's such a worrying time xxxx

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MrsG2907 · 24/10/2023 21:17

I did an e consult with the gp this morning as I was hoping they would prescribe progesterone as it’s now recommended if you’ve had 1 or more miscarriages and bleeding, they refused because it’s less than 3 miscarriages ( that rule drives me insane) however they have referred me to the epu and they have booked me in for a scan at 6 weeks.. maybe push to see if you can get that so you don’t have to pay. If I make it that far I will then probably book a private for 9 ish weeks to see me though to the 12 week scan.
i feel like I’ve been in a constant state of shock and stress for 4 months now and more to come! I am really happy though, just trying to keep calm.
The bans didn’t go well for either of us then. Fingers crossed !!! Xx

Lkb189 · 24/10/2023 21:24

My gp is the absolute worst no matter when you call you get Told their is no appointments and the tell you to call the hospital and they just give u standard appointments even with miscarriages.
I think it's shocking that you must suffer 3 miscarriages before they will give you any help at all I don't think they realise what misscarrages can do to a person's overall mental health and wellbeing.

Oh I totally understand the stress feeling and being overwhelmed with everything I'm the same as you just trying to stay calm and not jump at every wee twinge and I have an increase again I'm cm so constantly think am I bleeding and dreading to even look.

Why are our bodies designed to be this way lol xxx

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MrsG2907 · 25/10/2023 10:58

That is so awful !! My gp are a nightmare on the phone but their e consult bookings are pretty quick.
I know, i have mostly just been palmed off and told to refer to the well-being service even though the wait times and months if not years to speak to anyone! It’s shocking.

ohh I know that feeling every time you go to the loo your worrying :(
xxx

Lkb189 · 25/10/2023 19:29

Just a little update I managed to get a doctors appointment they couldn't verify the pregnancy as they no longer do tests she checked my urine for utis said I had trac3s of blood and sent me home no explanation nothing. Feel so let down by the nhs these days:( so now just to play the waiting game and see what happens xx

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MrsG2907 · 25/10/2023 22:25

It’s so shocking!! The support is so minimal and just leaves you so defeated :(
keeping everything crossed for you. I’m not sure if it’s an option for you but I did manage to get a deal on a private scan through Groupon for window to the womb with my last pregnancy.. it was about half price, I think they can do reassurance scans from around 6/7 weeks xxx

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