My husband and I have two daughters who are 3 and 4.
We live in Southeast Asia as teachers. Both children go to school (free as we both work at the school). We have a nanny and a cleaner (who comes twice a week).
At the moment we are managing to save around £2000 a month between us.
I am pretty sure I want another baby, and my husband is 50/50 at the moment.
Pros:
There would usually be someone to play with if one goes out to a friends house.
If we stay international they will always have each other (I worry about making friends and them moving away with being abroad).
I really do not feel 'done'.
Cons:
We are really happy with life at the moment. We are both getting back some alone time and our marriage is really good.
Cost. We love going on holidays and thst would increase massively.
I feel so busy with working full time and two children. I don't know how I could fit three in.
What would you do if you were me? 🤣