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Private scan confusion please help

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Mumof3boys85 · 09/08/2023 17:58

Confused and need advice please

So last period was 21st June. I got 6 very strong positives the day before my missed period (attached is 1) according to calculator I'm 7 weeks today.

Went for early scan today and was told I'm measuring 5w (2 weeks behind) so no fetal pole heart bear etc.

I'm really confused (and upset) I don't under stand how I could have had a very strong test 3 weeks ago but only measure 5 weeks.
The scanner wasn't worried and said it's normal but I have a feeling it's not viable/growing.

2 weeks is a lot to be measuring small isn't it??

Private scan confusion please help
Private scan confusion please help
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PickledScrump · 09/08/2023 19:50

My first pregnancy I measured 2 weeks behind at the 12 week scan. I was only measuring 10 weeks which was impossible as that would have meant I conceived the same time as I got my positive test. She’s now 12 years old so it doesn’t necessarily mean bad news.

Hopefulbride18 · 09/08/2023 19:54

It is hard to know so early... But I would be inclined to agree that it is concerning. 2 weeks is a lot..to get those positives 3 weeks ago you'd needed to have been 4 weeks gone then at least.

I'll keep my fingers crossed it's not bad news for you xx

moosey89 · 09/08/2023 22:26

At just under 9 weeks I measured 12 days behind and it didn't end well I'm afraid - but I knew from an early scan at 7+4 weeks (where I was 4 days behind) it was unlikely to end well due to a really slow heartbeat.

andloqa · 09/08/2023 22:55

Unfortunately I had a similar situation to you and it turned out to be a missed miscarriage.

Mumof3boys85 · 10/08/2023 11:10

Still confused and my hcg is more than doubling every day. Just a waiting game till the next scan I suppose

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FirstMondayInMay · 10/08/2023 11:51

This happened to me! I was 2 weeks behind when I was scanned at 7 and 9 weeks. By the time I had my 12 week scan baby had caught up by a week

DappledOliveGroves · 10/08/2023 12:27

I measured behind in a pregnancy that ended in miscarriage. I'm sorry; it's not a nice position to be in. It's really a waiting game.

neverstopwalking · 10/08/2023 17:13

I had similar from a private scan place - I was 7 weeks and they told me I measured 5+3 but not to worry. I'm sorry to say that this turned out to be a missed miscarriage. They told me that if I held my breath I'd be able to see a slight heartbeat - but I'm not convinced there was ever a heartbeat looking back and comparing this scan to other early scans I've had at hospitals/fertility clinics since.

I'm very dubious now about these private scan places - I'm sure that some of them aren't fit for purpose.

Are you able to get an appointment at your local Early Pregnancy Unit to get a second opinion?

Mangotango39 · 10/08/2023 21:13

Hey OP
was there a yolk or was sac completely empty?
sorry you are going through this x

Twocatstwodogs · 16/08/2023 10:40

@Mumof3boys85 hope things are ok? Is there any update or too early yet?

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