Bit of a personal question about body after pregnancy!

[emloux]

Hello!

Sorry this question is a bit TMI but I'm pregnant with my second child, I have 6 weeks to go! So excited. My first child is 8 so I left quite a big gap.

However a weird worry I am having lately is I was quite a bit younger when I had my 1st, I'm now 33, I'm worrying about down there going back to normal.

From anyone that's had more than one child, did your private parts go back to normal after 6 weeks? Or is it different now?

Such a weird worry 😂 after my first - everything went back to normal - but worried second time around and being that bit older!

Thanks 😆

It’s not Ok OP, anyone with any imagination knows women worry about this. It’s a nasty thing to say. Next time he does tell him it will be fine but it’s a gross comment do no more please.

Hey OP, I've had 3 kids and 1st and 3rd took a gd long time to recover- with tearing etc, was a difficult time- but my 2nd was incredibly different incredibly easy fast recovery- so it really depends on baby and delivery. All 3 labours were fast and easy just I didn't stretch my v large headed DD well

Hi op , sorry but that made me giggle 🤭 throwing a sausage down an alley 😂 never heard that one I used to say mines guna end up like a wizards sleeve haha!! But after my 3 and stitches each and every time for tearing it's always gone back to I suppose what anyone would call normal.. now pregnant with my 4th and 32 I'm thinking of god my full vagina might just fall off this time .. you have to keep some humour in life what's the point in being so serious all the time . He no doubt just found him self funny like all men do. I'm sure once your beautiful baby has arrived in time all will be okay ❤️ xx

No, don’t do that.
Women are facing life long complications after they, or their male partners, request what is referred to a “husband stitch”.
Don’t make a misogynistic conversation and expectation into a painful physical issue.