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Talk about every stage of pregnancy, from early symptoms to preparing for birth.

Pregnancy loss

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Goldielockes · 10/07/2023 13:54

I thought I had my period on 27th june. I was supposed to have fertility surgery on 7th July and pregnancy test was positive. Not sure when I conceived. I had sonebrown discharge so got booked in for a scan. Scan couldn't see gestational sac and my endometrium was thin. Had another pregnancy rest which was positive. Just got home and I the discharge has turned from brown to pink. I think this means the pregnancy is lost.

I'm so devastated. I didn't get too excited with the tes because I thought this would happen. I have never had a positive test before.

What do I do now? If we try again when do we try?

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PickledScrump · 10/07/2023 19:02

Bleeding doesn’t necessarily mean you have lost the pregnancy. I had bleeding at 9 weeks which was bright red. I’m now 25 weeks pregnant. My friend had heavy bleeding for 10 days at 6 weeks and she’s due in a few weeks.
if you’re still getting positive tests I’d take that as a good sign and you may just be too early for anything to be seen on a scan.

Goldielockes · 10/07/2023 19:17

The sonographer said she couldn't see a sac and that my endometrium is too thin for pregnancy. I am waiting for blood test but I don't think there is hope this time. I'm really sad about this

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CC4712 · 10/07/2023 19:22

I'm glad that they did blood tests on you. I'd be concerned it might be an ectopic if the endometrium is too thin to be in the uterus. It sounds like a pregnancy of unknown location. When do you get the results back OP? IF you feel faint, shoulder tip pain, abdo pain- please go to A&E as a matter of urgency. Wishing you all the best though x

Goldielockes · 10/07/2023 19:28

Thank you. I have has bloating and mild pain in my abdomen. I did have bleeding a few weeks ago wih I thought was my period so maybe that's why the lining is thin?

They took bloods today and then I have to have another blood test on Wednesday.

The pregnancy test they took was a lot fainter than before so maybe it just means it's a chemical. I think I have an ovarian cyst too so could be symptoms from that.

The nurses were nice but the sonagrapher was horrible to me. She took 2 minutes looking at my uterus and ovaries. She barely even spoke to me.

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Goldielockes · 11/07/2023 12:08

Thank you for your advice. I had a scan and have an ectopic pregnancy

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Bizjustgotreal · 11/07/2023 18:25

Bless you, we're going through very similar things. I'm so sorry to hear that you've got an ectopic and hope that your treatment goes well x

Goldielockes · 12/07/2023 02:27

I hope you are OK?

The surgeons are hoping it resolves on its own so they are monitoring me in hospital. Hopefully I won't have to to to theatre 🤞

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Bizjustgotreal · 12/07/2023 06:18

I'm just going for my second HCG blood check. I'm currently pregnancy of unknown location after bleeding at what I thought was 7 weeks. Based on the very low level of HCG, I think mine is just a standard miscarriage. Fingers crossed you don't need theatre xx

CC4712 · 12/07/2023 10:03

I'm so sorry to hear that OP ❤

Goldielockes · 12/07/2023 13:20

Thank you for your help. I thought I was being a hypochondriac but when you responded it made me think I needed to trust my instinct with how I bad I was feeling and make sure I was assessed properly.

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