Really need some advice please, I’ve spent the last 11 days frantically searching the forums and no idea where to post properly just finding threads.
IVF pregnancy - double embryo transfer 29/07
Positive HCG - 282 07/08
Went to EPU on 13/08 due to a niggly dull ache lower back, only panicked because it’s our first pregnancy and IVF has made me an anxious mess! Pain subsided 3 hours later, no bleeding at all and no pain since this day!
Suspected ectopic, then a few days later that was ruled out and tubes clear, first doctor said “tubal miscarriage” and to have emergency surgery that night! Second doctor apologised and said “no your tubes are clear but with your HCG levels we should be seeing something as your dates are exact” (like it’s a textbook pregnancy and has to follow the rules because it’s IVF).
Repeated bloods (doubling), repeated scans and first 2 showed nothing at 5+1 and 5+3, then on my third scan one of my IVF doctors in the EPU spotted the start of the pregnancy sac 19/08 at 5+5 however the sonographer suspected it was earlier than 5+5. But they suggested no surgery at all as it’s showing in my uterus!
Fast forward to my follow up IVF scan yesterday 6+4 (5 days since my last scan at EPU) a sac, a yolk and a 2mm fetal pole but no heartbeat. I also have a tilted uterus she said! The nurse was positive about it but got my private consultant to check my ovaries as they’re cystic due to the IVF and she wanted to be thorough and not miss an ovarian ectopic!
He strolls in, uses the internal wand, nurse points out the “good news it’s a uterine pregnancy” to which he replied “hmm yes but I doubt this will be viable as your dates are accurate”!!!
I felt completely deflated and wish I had spoke up! How can he say non viable when in 5 days we’ve had amazing development! Surely something is happening?
Over 10 days I’ve had 5 doctors, my private IVF consultant all calling it a mystery. My levels are doubling and high, symptoms are there!
Do IVF pregnancies definitely follow the rules, dates, tick boxes and milestones to the exact dot?
The lovely nurse wants to rescan in 5 days and gave me a scan photo just so I could show my partner.
If there’s anywhere else I can post these can you please assist. I’m driving myself beyond insane and I’m a mixture of upset and angry!
Thank you for reading (if you’ve got this far lol) x