Dreading my 1st scan

[Lily189]

Hi everyone
im plus sized (around 20 stone ) I am 9 weeks pregnant with my third baby
And I'm deading my 12 week scan I hate my stomach and was about to start working out when I found out I was pregnant
My last 12 week scan was awful the woman who done the scan left my weight in big writing on the computer screen facing the scan bed which was so embarrassing my partner dosnt have a problem with my weight but it made me so uncomfortable with it just there on the screen has anyone else had this happen ?

and she was rude when asking me to move my stomach and hold it
Ano I will have to do this it was just her whole attitude
And I'm afraid this will happen again I'm just stressing myself out and getting so upset about it

I'm also scared they won't be able to see rhe baby properly I've had w c scetions and now have an apron

I was also wondering what type of exercises are safe when pregnant im scared to do too much because I've had 2 previous c scetions

All advice be great tia

Hey Hun ❤️
Oh snap! I am almost 9 weeks with my third and have had 2 c sections. I also have an apron. I weighed over 20 stone with my first and second.. this time I am 16.7. As for exercise walking is the best, that's what my midwife said just walking or swimming.

Sorry you had someone made you feel uncomfortable last time..that sucks. But it doesn't mean it will be the same this time 😁 sometimes people in the world haven't quite caught up with the fact that... actually most of us don't judge people on their appearance, race, sexual preferences anymore.
Also I find some hospital staff are quite clinical with their communication... I have experienced it myself while feeling quite vulnerable.. it's not the best but it's not personal.. it's business to them. 🥰

Good luck with your scan lovvie. 🫂❤️ Enjoy your pregnancy and your moments 🌟🙂