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Pregnant after miscarriage with no period in between - how to date pregnancy?

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Jemma13 · 18/04/2023 10:32

Hi all,

I had a miscarriage on 26th Feb and I took a pregnancy test on 31st March and got a BFP. I was dating the pregnancy from the date I had the bleeding which would make me 7 weeks however I have had a call from the midwife today saying as they can’t be sure on dates they are going to date me 2 weeks before I took the pregnancy test which only makes me 4 weeks.

I'm just conscious of being further along than what they are saying and missing the 12 week tests.

has anyone had experiences with this and when did they date you from/ did your dates end up moving a lot when you eventually had a scan?

Thank you!

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Crzy · 18/04/2023 10:38

First day will be day of miscarriage usually, had to do some research into this as praying the same thing happens this cycle

Sunshineclouds11 · 18/04/2023 10:46

Normally first of bleeding they'll count as CD1.
Your dates will be knocked forward/back by I'd say atleast a week.

Have you had HCG done?
I would be inclined to ask EPU for an early scan or go private

Ash9420 · 18/04/2023 13:00

Use a clear bue week indicator this dates from conception (then add 2 weeks) hope that helps.. just an idea OP

allgoodthings84 · 18/04/2023 13:09

They dated me from the first day of bleeding so counted it like a period. It was pretty accurate as I ovulated CD16/17 so it was only out by 2 days which was confirmed at the 12 week scan

counting back 2 weeks before your bfp could put you around 2 weeks out so seems a strange way to do it. 4 weeks before would be more accurate.

Jemma13 · 18/04/2023 15:06

I thought this was the case! I will let you know what happens with my experience

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Jemma13 · 18/04/2023 15:09

@Sunshineclouds11 I haven’t checked my HCG… would this be done at the doctors?

I think I will just wait a few weeks and then book a private scan… annoying as I didn’t want to have to pay for one but I also don’t want to miss the 12 week checks!

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Jemma13 · 18/04/2023 15:12

@allgoodthings84 thank you for this! It’s good to know your date was only moved by a few days.

I also thought this was a really strange way of doing it and if I’m out by 2 weeks this would mean I would miss getting the 12 week tests done as the midwife said they can’t be done past 14 weeks which I will probably be 14 weeks at my 12 week scan if I go by the hospital dates!

I think I will book a private scan for peace of mind.

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