Scared I'm pregnant

[Mamalamadrama]

I'm 44. Don't have enough room for more. Can't afford to move. Can't really afford another. Youngest is 15 months. Still breastfeeding so haven't had a period.
Scared do a test. But have felt queezy the last couple of days.

No point in worrying until you have an answer. Just do a test and get yourself/your partner on some contraception if you don’t want another baby.

I can understand being scared to do a test, but surely the sooner you know, the more options you have? If you are pregnant you’re not going to be less pregnant if you haven’t got a positive test, and the longer you leave it to find out, the worse it’s going to be.

This is your tough love message, intended to shake you into some action. At the same time, this must be horrible for you, so have these 💐

Bite the bullet and do a test, the sooner you know the sooner you can make plans .
What contraception are you using?

Bite the bullet - and remember 57% of the c250,000 women having terminations in 2021 already had a child. Ie there are plenty of other women out there who decide another child isn't good for them or their family.

But you can easily terminate an unwanted pregnancy? Do the test and the sooner you know the quicker you can sort it out

You don’t know what country the poster is in?

OP - do the test. It’s the only way to move forward. Not knowing is worse than knowing, trust me. All the best x

Is it too soon to test? The sooner you know the sooner you can make a decision. Unfortunately it's a time sensitive issue.

You might not be pregnant, have you been using contraception? You make have a bug instead or something.