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BFP after 2 miscarriages

10 replies

Peachy3118 · 18/04/2023 00:06

Hi..
Head is spinning, after 2 MCs last year the dr had agreed to refer me for further investigation as 34 this year. Booked this morning for weight, height and chlamydia test and woke up this morning with a “feeling” and knowing was roughly 14 DPO (but had been told by dr not sure if levels right so had been feeling sorry for myself) done a test and BFP, faint but was there. Went drs who tested again and very much a line (have done 3 tests since)… told to call epas due to background who have booked me in for a scan once over 6 weeks. I’m in such a weird place as struggling to be excited as know what’s happened this last year. Has anyone went through anything similar?
Fingers, toes and everything crossed that this wee rainbow is the one x

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Doodledeedum · 18/04/2023 00:22

Yes!
Exactly this. I was in the process of investing ( after 2 MMC in one year ) and was pregnant with my third the day of my uterus scan!
Happy to chat privately about it all
I'm now laying next to that baby ⭐️ sorry for your losses... wishing you lots of sticky bean baby dust ✨

Wavescrashingonthebeach · 18/04/2023 00:22

Congratulations! I haven't had a similar experience just wanted to send some good wishes your way.

Doodledeedum · 18/04/2023 00:28

Doodledeedum · 18/04/2023 00:22

Yes!
Exactly this. I was in the process of investing ( after 2 MMC in one year ) and was pregnant with my third the day of my uterus scan!
Happy to chat privately about it all
I'm now laying next to that baby ⭐️ sorry for your losses... wishing you lots of sticky bean baby dust ✨

*investigating!

Peachy3118 · 20/04/2023 15:26

Thanks for the good wishes - been testing daily and those little lines are getting stronger 🥰 still not able to “celebrate” as we’re both so nervous but trying to think sticky happy thoughts!

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38andtrying · 20/04/2023 16:02

congratulations and every bit of good luck to you x

log51 · 20/04/2023 16:03

Hi @Peachy3118 sorry for your losses. Not quite the same but I had a chemical in December and am now nearly 18 weeks pregnant. I just took all the small wins, like when the clearblue weeks test changed to "2-3 weeks" then "3+".

To be honest by about week 6-7 of pregnancy I felt SO exhausted that I didn't even have the energy to feel nervous if that makes sense!!

Melusina123 · 20/04/2023 16:09

I had 2 MCs in six months, then BFP on month 9. Currently 38wks pregnant. Not going to lie, it's been a very anxious pregnancy and I've struggled to enjoy it very much, as every milestone has felt like getting a bit deeper into something that could still be taken away.

The advice I would give someone else that I failed to follow myself is that the outcome won't change if you let yourself enjoy it. Even after 2 MCs the odds are overwhelmingly in your favour that you'll be going home with a baby at the end of it. So try to find the happiness and excitement even if it's fleeting. Fingers crossed for you. 💛

allgoodthings84 · 20/04/2023 16:58

I’m really sorry for your losses. I had 2 losses late last year and am now nearly 22 weeks pregnant. I’ve been worried constantly of losing the baby but so far things are going really well. My GP wouldn’t refer me until I had 3 losses though. You have a great chance of this going well 😊

Peachy3118 · 27/04/2023 19:51

Sorry haven’t replied 🙈

Thanks all for your lovely words and for sharing your stories!

That wee line has been getting stronger and stronger and 6 weeks today, have a scan at Epas tomorrow so fingers crossed it goes well. We are both super nervous but hopeful.

Plus I am ill lol with sickness, boobs and heartburn so hoping all good sticky signs!

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Peachy3118 · 28/04/2023 09:46

Had scan this morning at epas, they said before they started that it may be hard to give full reassurance but there was a wee pregnancy hiding away and we’ve to go back in 2 weeks now.

All I can think of now is how this happened with the MMC but other half reminded me how we couldn’t see anything at all, thinking positive baby thoughts (but also terrified!)

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