So had unprotected sex Saturday 4th March..... drunken fumble.... took MAPx2 Monday afternoon..... fast forward to period day and this....
I bought some tests on the way home from work yesterday because I just feel different....
I've got 4 children.... but I'm single, my children are 24, 20, 15 and 12. I divorced their father 6 years ago. I met this babies dad around Christmas time; we're not together now..... stupid argument but would probably never see him again in usual circumstances. He is 48 separated, awaiting divorce and has 4 children. I found his situation quite complicated- as he has 3 teens and a 4 year old. I felt that our lives were in different places at times.
Think I'm in a state of shock.... and just wanted to share this news. Despite, it being completely crazy.... I think i want to keep this pregnancy- unsure, because of my age, if my body would allow it. But I feel like it's a blessing.
Has anyone had a successful pregnancy at 41? Or fallen pregnant from a fling and kept it? How do I tell the father and when?
Sorry for all the questions: my four children were all planned and I was married.... seems crazy to have an accident at my age! I am financially secure, well paid job, own home, debt free...
Just want to know that I'll be okay x
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Pregnant at 41
Popalina65 · 18/03/2023 07:11
rubygiz · 26/03/2023 18:13
@Popalina65 how you getting on
jjeanii · 26/03/2023 23:04
Hi I'm 40 and pregnant with my 4th , all other 3 were with my ex husband who I separated from in lockdown. I want to send you support, I'm 22 weeks pregnant now and I too was shocked and worried if my body could do it . My kids are 23 , 16 and 13 . I hope you have support from friends or family I am lucky the father is being supportive for me. Hope you are okay and get your appointments sorted out and keep on going. It really does start to fly in . Xx
jjeanii · 27/03/2023 11:13
Oh Waw I can sense that you will be a great mum and to hear it from your ex is so nice. Enjoy your day mama ! I'm smiling too now . I wanted you to be happy 😊
Popalina65 · 10/04/2023 10:55
Thank you all so much for responding xx
I have my viability scan in the morning... after a small bleed x my HCG has risen but I've stupidly read up about molar pregnancy and empty gestational sacks 😓
I feel so stupid because I took the morning after pill to prevent this pregnancy but now it's here I'm so desperate to be it's mummy.
I just pray those pills haven't stopped my bean from growing 🌱
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