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Pregnant at 41
Popalina65 · 18/03/2023 07:11
So had unprotected sex Saturday 4th March..... drunken fumble.... took MAPx2 Monday afternoon..... fast forward to period day and this....
I bought some tests on the way home from work yesterday because I just feel different....
I've got 4 children.... but I'm single, my children are 24, 20, 15 and 12. I divorced their father 6 years ago. I met this babies dad around Christmas time; we're not together now..... stupid argument but would probably never see him again in usual circumstances. He is 48 separated, awaiting divorce and has 4 children. I found his situation quite complicated- as he has 3 teens and a 4 year old. I felt that our lives were in different places at times.
Think I'm in a state of shock.... and just wanted to share this news. Despite, it being completely crazy.... I think i want to keep this pregnancy- unsure, because of my age, if my body would allow it. But I feel like it's a blessing.
Has anyone had a successful pregnancy at 41? Or fallen pregnant from a fling and kept it? How do I tell the father and when?
Sorry for all the questions: my four children were all planned and I was married.... seems crazy to have an accident at my age! I am financially secure, well paid job, own home, debt free...
Just want to know that I'll be okay x
rubygiz · 18/03/2023 12:29
I am 39 and due in 6 weeks, I left my ex husband 2 years ago after been together for 15 years, I was told I could not have kids and 6 months into a new relationship I became pregnant my relationship is amazing but it was a huge shock to us at the time. I would tell the father asap but if you can do this on your own then go for it as I knew if my oh was not onboard I would still continue and do this with my families support
Moni81 · 18/03/2023 13:51
Well I'm 16 weeks pregnant with my accident baby at 42, so yes it does happen lol. If you want that baby keep it, otherwise may regret it. It will be ok, you don't need that guy, I'm sure your older children will support and help you.
Popalina65 · 18/03/2023 19:42
Thank you for your responses x I called the dad, he was lovely x
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