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Have a feeling something is wrong

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newmummie · 02/03/2023 07:33

Hi everyone, I can't explain it but I just have a bad feeling about my baby in my tummy :( just no longer feel pregnant at all, I'm 16+4 , all of my pregnancy symptoms have disappeared, have no bump what's so ever, and just have stopped feeling pregnant I can't explain it.. I have my 16week appt tomorrow where they'll check the heartbeat, which I'm glad about but also dreading bc of how I'm thinking 😭 I've had no signs of bleeding or cramps, what's the chances of a missed miscarriage at 16w? Or would I definitely be bleeding? Thanks everyone I just want to feel at ease :(

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newmummie · 02/03/2023 08:33

Bump

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J1290 · 02/03/2023 08:36

No but i got this till about 22 weeks at some points forget im pregnant... weird

Blue2020 · 02/03/2023 09:22

I had that from 14weeks until 20weeks. When the first trimester symptoms stopped and I didn’t have a bump. At the 16week appt the midwife offered to hear the heartbeat which helped.

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newmummie · 02/03/2023 12:35

Thank you both 🥰 hoping it's just all in my head.. I'll update yous tomorrow after my appt :)

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buckingmad · 02/03/2023 12:58

I felt similar around that time so I booked a private scan to find out the gender ahead of the NHS 20 week scan. For me I think my bloating really died down so I looked more like pre pregnant me and also my sickness went away. It was a blissful few weeks of no symptoms before the back ache and heartburn kicked in!

You'll start feeling movement soon which can be reassuring.

rach971 · 02/03/2023 13:07

I've felt like that on and off and I'm almost 19 weeks now. Some days I feel very pregnant, other times I go days feeling completely normal. I think at that stage the strong symptoms and bloating are easing but you still don't have the big bump and the kicks etc, it's a weird time.

The only thing I would say is that they can't always hear the heartbeat at 16 weeks so try not to get yourself too stressed. Although hopefully they do.

allgoodthings84 · 02/03/2023 13:24

I’m 15 weeks nearly and feel the same. I’m constantly thinking something bad has happened. My symptoms are gone now (normal I know) and I don’t have much of a bump at all if anything. I had a bit of brown blood in discharge once a day for a few days back a week and a half ago and was checked then and everything was ok at the check but I can’t stop worrying. Probably because I had 2 miscarriages before this pregnancy. I’m going to book a gender scan for around 17 weeks (can’t go at 16 weeks as no appointments available on the days I can go) but scared of doing that too

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newmummie · 03/03/2023 17:18

Baby's heart was beating away 🥰 so happy

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allgoodthings84 · 03/03/2023 19:22

@newmummie I’m so glad all was good for you 😊

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