Hi! I’m in desperate need of some advice. All online due date calculators predict from your last period date which would put me at 9 weeks 3 days , as I have quite a lot of fibroids I was keen to have an early scan. I booked an early private scan and they measured me at 5 weeks 5 days, saying that it’s too early to hear a heat beat and either dates are wrong or the foetus has stopped growing. For anyone good with dates and this stuff; We could not had conceived before December 24th, but I did multiple pregnancy dates between 7th - 19th of January and they were all negative until the 30th January! The one before the 30th was on the 19th and was negative. I don’t understand why they are so certain I should have been 9 weeks but it obviously is very worrying and heart breaking to hear I could potentially have a foetus that stopped growing. I was on the pill beforehand and this is my first pregnancy, so my cycles could have been everyone coming off the mini pill… but I don’t know. I would love any advice as I’m beyond myself with worry and won’t get another scan for a few weeks as can’t afford another private one. (For reference my period was on 10th December and lastest 10 days - this is what they’ve calculated on).
Thanks so so much ❤️