Help me please mums x

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Boutiquebabe123 · 13/02/2023 14:52

Hello everyone 😊 im 18 and pregnant and my partner is older than me and he's decided to leave me... im around 10 weeks and im still living at my parents. I'd love for some advice and support on next steps please thank you xx

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imy · 13/02/2023 15:07

Hiya, I'm really sorry that your partner has left you in this situation. How are you feeling and have you told your parents about the pregnancy?

Sallyh87 · 13/02/2023 15:35

Hi, sorry he hasn’t stood by you. He sounds a real catch!

What sort of advice are you after, might help people point you in the right direction.

What to do for medical care?
Benefits etc?

allgoodthings84 · 13/02/2023 16:04

I’m so sorry your partner has just left you. You’re better off without him.

you don’t say whether you want to keep the baby or if you’ve told anyone yet? Have you had a midwife booking in appointment?

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Boutiquebabe123 · 13/02/2023 16:57

imy · 13/02/2023 15:07

Hiya, I'm really sorry that your partner has left you in this situation. How are you feeling and have you told your parents about the pregnancy?

Hi thank you for replying 💗 I have told my parents yes and they are supportive with whatever I do and will always look after me so I'm lucky in that sense xx

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Boutiquebabe123 · 13/02/2023 16:59

Sallyh87 · 13/02/2023 15:35

Hi, sorry he hasn’t stood by you. He sounds a real catch!

What sort of advice are you after, might help people point you in the right direction.

What to do for medical care?
Benefits etc?

Hi thank you for replying 💗 it's a lot because he's living in wales and I'm from up north and wants me to be down there when his family don't even like me, it's my own doing due to my mental health but still I don't feel I can be down there i don't know if I've done the right thing or not. But yes I'm just looking for any kind of help and advice really as I'm a bit all over the place and just really stuck at the moment to be honest xx

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Boutiquebabe123 · 13/02/2023 17:01

allgoodthings84 · 13/02/2023 16:04

I’m so sorry your partner has just left you. You’re better off without him.

you don’t say whether you want to keep the baby or if you’ve told anyone yet? Have you had a midwife booking in appointment?

Hi thank you for replying 💗 I saw a counseller this morning at gynocology I think it's called correct my spelling 😂🤦🏻‍♀️ and she went through all the options for me being a abortion or to be in wales with him or do it in sheffield on my own. I had a phone call from the midwife this afternoon and she said she will ring me again on Thursday to let her know what I want to do. I do want my baby I just hate that it's this situation because it is a lot especially when I struggle with my mental health aswell xx

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allgoodthings84 · 13/02/2023 18:34

@Boutiquebabe123 I would speak to the dad of your baby and to your parents before making a very big decision as it’s a massive decision either way. Having a baby is really hard even when your partner is around but you have your families support.

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