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Possible pregnancy at 50

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Mermaidpool · 28/01/2023 17:45

Posting for a friend, she is 50, no period since November, negative pregnancy test, rounded stomach, but she is convinced she is pregnant. I have suggested multiple times to call doctor if she is so sure but hasn't done as yet . What are the chances of her being right? I don't know why she hasn't contacted the doctor just says she will soon

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villamariavintrapp · 28/01/2023 17:49

Very low. But I'd advise her to see her GP. Ovarian cancer can present like that.

Bluelightbaby · 28/01/2023 17:50

Highly unlikely to have a negative test and be far enough along to have a bump. I’d get her to make a GP appt asap as could be something more sinister

RandomMess · 28/01/2023 17:58

Sad far more likely to be cancer than pregnancy I would have thought.

titchy · 28/01/2023 17:58

villamariavintrapp · 28/01/2023 17:49

Very low. But I'd advise her to see her GP. Ovarian cancer can present like that.

This. She needs a referral urgently. Once someone with Ovarian cancer is at the enlarged stomach phase they're probably at stage 3 or 4. It's known as the silent cancer.

Angelik · 28/01/2023 18:06

Or a fibroid as mine is presenting like 16 weeks gestation. Either way she needs it looking at. I suspect she is frightened and allowing herself to believe it's a pregnancy.

LaLuz7 · 28/01/2023 18:21

She needs a doctor ASAP. How can she be so blaze about it? If it's pregnancy it needs to be monitored. If it's not, it could be cancer or fibroids.

custardbear · 28/01/2023 18:30

Could be something to do with the menopause, could be a cyst or r
Tumour ... she needs to see a doctor to rule out scary things

2022again · 28/01/2023 19:12

Denial is sadly really common with people experiencing cancer red flags although it’s just as likely to be a more benign cause such as a cyst…have you expressed to her that she needs to get cancer excluded? For her to be sure she’s pregnant but not wanting to get it confirmed by the GP is a bit of a sign that deep down she’s worried about the outcome.

ThomasinaLivesHere · 28/01/2023 19:15

Do you think she genuinely believes it? Or is it denial?
It really doesn’t sound like a pregnancy. Like others say could be something that needs seeing to urgently. Could be something less scary that could be resolved. Either way she needs to see GP.

allgoodthings84 · 28/01/2023 19:39

I would say at 50 and still having negative tests when she’s not had a period since November I would say it’s not pregnancy. She really needs to see her GP to rule out anything serious.

Dogsandbabies · 28/01/2023 20:02

I am 15 weeks. Last period was in October. I still test positive on pregnancy tests.

I would be really worried in her shoes. Excessive bloating can be a due to many reasons and some are really worrying like cancer.

Mermaidpool · 28/01/2023 23:46

Thank you all, I hadn't considered cancer I'll be honest. I assumed menopause but could not understand why she is reluctant to see gp. I will speak to her again and try to find out if she is worried about other symptoms

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