Constantly thinking about another baby.

[Dma411]

I have a little boy that is 2 and half and recently I am constantly thinking about another child to the point where it’s keeping me up at night.
childcare is an issue for us and we are both working parents. I don’t know if it’s sensible to have another but will I regret not have them in the future.

After DS (now 2.5yrs) we decided we wouldn’t have anymore. We both work full time and live abroad so no family help. DS was also IVF so we considered ourselves very fortunate. However I am now 28 weeks with a surprise pregnancy. After the initial panic for a few weeks, we are both now very excited. We know it’ll be hard for a couple of years but it will be worth it. I think if it’s what you want then you will make it work.

I think it’s the thought of the struggle more than anything but my heart is telling me yes but head is telling me no. That’s amazing news, congratulations! Definitely ment to be!