Found out I’m pregnant at 30 weeks!

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Well this is scary! You’d think after 2 children already I’d know the signs! But nope! Only just found out in preg and going from last time me and hubby done the deed I’d be 30 weeks! Got to get onto midwife’s tomorrow morning and get a scan booked asap! Somehow find a way of telling the hubby and other kids and the rest of the family! I didn’t plan any more kids but obviously this 1 had other ideas! Oh and I was on the 12 week depo jab!

@CallTheMobWife think she knows it all 🤣🤣. My bump and any movement that came with it appeared suddenly and overnight. The reason being that my placenta had been lying at the front. It moved and the baby moved with it. All pretty average

I'm creased!

Not heard anyone say 'takes one to know one' since primary school 😂😂

@StormiBaby 😂😂😂

Congratulations OP! Look after yourself and if you feel up to it, keep us updated!

Congratulations! What a lovely positive attitude!

How exciting for you and your family.but what a shock you’ve had!

Wow I am so invested in your journey from reading this. I love your attitude ❤️ I'm 34w so not much between us by the sound xx

Hardly. If someone doesn't know they are pregnant chances are they've had a drink

Not really. It someone doesn't know they're pregnant there's a chance they've had a drink. I don't think they meant it in a judgey way

I'm incredibly jealous.

Good luck, OP. Can't wait for an update.

Well I am not the only one that thinks it was said in an unkind way and came across judgemantally, probably because that's how it was meant.

I mean what is the point in saying when someone was unaware that they were pregnant until 30 weeks, that you presume that they don't drink, it's too late.

By all means you can wish them well and hope that their lifestyle choice during the unknown pregnancy is not going to cause any issues with the baby.

But the blunt one liner, was unkind and unhelpful and so full of judgement.

Just pointing out I very very rarely drink alcohol, maybe twice a year coz I just don’t enjoy it! Can’t stand the hang over afterwards so I’d just rather drink tea and be chilled!

Which is opportune, but you shouldn't be judged if you did. You didn't know you were pregnant.

Yeah it's obviously great you naturally haven't been drinking but if you had you weren't to know so it's absolutely not something you should be judged on.

I wasn't judging I just didn't think that comment was judgey. Things get took the wrong way. You can't tell the emotion of the comment.

Nothing got "took" the wrong way it was taken as it was meant, judgementally.

Well then some people get offended so easily

@Emmamoo89 well then some people see through thinly veiled nastiness....

@SchoolTripDrama we just call it the jag where i am from lol

I know you're in shock but what a lovely surprise. Congratulations.

I found out about my surprise in January. I rarely drink aside from over Christmas and New Year and holidays (of which there had been a few). When I told my midwife she told me not to worry at all. It's good you haven't drank but most people, including professionals, wouldn't judge if you had.

How did your mum take the good news?

Good luck x

Good luck op 💐💐

Its also a myth that if ur positive pregnancy test should get darker as ur pregnancy increases, i am 8 weeks pregnant and my pregnancy test are all very faint hardly visible went for a private scan and baby seems healthy so far