Abortion, FWB doesn’t know.

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A couple of weeks ago i found out I'm pregnant, just over 6 weeks. I have no intention of keeping it, I’m not in a stage of my life where it would be fair to have a child. I have an appointment next week to terminate. I’ve told only my best friend, the father is a casual FWB who I don’t have a relationship with. It’s a situation I thought I'd ever find myself in, initially I planned to see it through and not tell him, but part of me wants to. Not because I expect anything from him, but we are both responsible for this and ought to understand the consequences. Has anyone been through something similar?

Yes I'd tell him. You were adult enough to have unprotected sex and adult enough to book a termination so you should also be adult enough to tell him too - actions have consequences and he needs to learn that as well. It will likely be the shock (that both of you need) to avoid unplanned pregnancies in the future otherwise he'll just carry on in life consequence free

Iwouldnt bother I think it’s in your head that he will care or feel guilty, he won’t, most men don’t see the big deal in abortions I’ve often heard it referred to as “just a pill” like it’s no big deal