Is being apathetic normal?

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DH and I have very recently discovered we’re expecting our first. DH is scared, nervous but excited and I’m trying to be but right now I don’t feel anything. We’ve been trying for a while, and both want this, but is it normal to feel nothing at this early stage?

Absolutely. I'm expecting my second child, my first was ten years ago. I pined for this pregnancy, it was very much wanted and tried for and came after a suspected ectopic the year before.

However, I never felt as excited about it as I'd expected to, and was more sort of 'okay, this is happening then' about it.

Yes I felt this. I think I was afraid to be happy and excited in case something happened.