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Pregnancy

Talk about every stage of pregnancy, from early symptoms to preparing for birth.

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emi1998 · 20/12/2022 15:05

Hi i need some major advice.Me and my partner broke up with eachother for a few weeks in late november. On the 3rd of december i stupidly slept with somebody else (one night stand, too emotional and hurting). Today i have had 2 very positive pregnancy tests. Im unsure of when i conceived and im worried i conceived on the 3rd of december with this ONS. I have irregular periods as i have pcos and i had my first baby 18 months ago, my last period was on the 29th of october. Im just so worried this baby isnt my partners. I know its my stupid descision but can anybody help? If i conceived less than 3 weeks ago can my tests be this strong realistically? Can anyone help?

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GreenManalishi · 20/12/2022 15:08

When you say "a few weeks in late November" when would that mean you could have last realistically conceived with your partner, rather than on 3rd December?

Morielle · 20/12/2022 15:09

3rd if December isn't 3+ weeks - it's less than that

TokyoSushi · 20/12/2022 15:10

They do look particularly strong for only being conceived on 3rd December, but nobody on here can really tell you...

What's the situation with your partner now?

emi1998 · 20/12/2022 15:13

It was around 2 or so weeks so i would imagine the middle of november?

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emi1998 · 20/12/2022 15:14

Were back together, but he would be devastated if i was pregnant with somebody elses baby :(

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SirVixofVixHall · 20/12/2022 15:14

When did you last have sex with your partner ?

PutOnAHappyFace · 20/12/2022 15:16

By that digital you are at least 5 weeks pregnant so I would say it couldn't be the one night stand but tbh only a scan will tell you. You can get higher pregnancy hormones for twins so it's possible to be less than 5 weeks result but that obviously isn't as common.

SirVixofVixHall · 20/12/2022 15:16

Eg can you work out the date you last had sex with him ?

K37529 · 20/12/2022 15:27

If there's a couple of weeks between sleeping with your partner and the other man then a scan will confirm who it is, until you have a scan you won't know for sure, the 3+ would suggest it's your partner but the weeks indicators aren't always accurate they weren't with my last

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