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Worried about how son will react to new baby

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courts1704 · 06/12/2022 06:40

I'm due to have a baby in a couple of weeks, and am worried about how my 2 year old son is going to react.

He is such a mummy's boy, and gets very jealous if I ever hold another baby and will tend to try and push it away and cuddle me.

Obviously throughout my pregnant we have spoken to him about a new baby, however he just replies with 'no baby'. He just turned 2 in September so is still very little and I'm not sure he really understands, but I'm just so worried about him feeling jealous and left out.

Any advice?

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boogiejive · 06/12/2022 07:03

DS1 was 2yr2m when DS2 was born.

We spoke about it being his baby - would he help mummy with his baby? Would he like a cuddle with his baby? And so on.

We also found it helped that he started nursery around six mo this before baby arrived - he had his own routine, wasn't pushed out by the baby coming into the family, and meant I had a few hours a couple of times a week to focus just on DS2.

Good luck, but kids are more adaptable than we think.

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