Two potential dads - please don’t judge

[Messedup001]

Please don't judge me I'm going out of my mind.

First day of my last period was 31/10 I finished my period on 4/11 me and my partner were having a rough time and he told me it was over. I then stupidly had sex with my ex on the 4th.

My partner told me he had made a mistake and it was all over nothing so we ended up sorting out our differences and want to make a go of our relationship.

We then had sex everyday in the week 7/11 sometimes twice a day! Sorry if TMI.

Today I've done a test and got a positive. It's still faint I have attached photo. But now I'm going out of my mind thinking it's my ex's baby. Can somebody please help with conception dates because I'm going out of my mind.

Whilst it's not impossible to be your ex's, the chances are low. If you have a standard 28 day cycle, your ovulation would be around 14th November.

@TokenGinger I’ve done the conception calculator and that gives the same ovulation time as you. Still panicking tho. Thank you for your reply x

Sounds unlikely, but not impossible, to be the ex’s.

Yes more than likely your partner but only one way to know 100% will be to test

No condom used with either one? Did they ejaculate inside?

It's more likely to be your partner's. But sperm can live up to 5 days and if you ovulated a little early this month it could absolutely be your ex's.

There's prenatal DNA tests you can take these days. No need to agonise over it your entire pregnancy.

How old are you?

@RandomMusings7 Nope. Stupidly, I know!

Im 32. X

My tracking app suggests I ovulated around the 13th November.

Haven’t read all your post . The best way is to speak to your/a midwife and give them all the details . They will be able to tell you more accurately than we can , they will not bat an eyelid, really, this is far more common than you think. Good luck.

Would the dad make a difference in your decision to proceed with the pregnancy or not?

I’d book an appointment for a sexual health check also if you’re going to continue having unprotected sex with multiple partners.

When was that test done and what kind is it? If its an early test and done today or yest in my experience it looks faint enough that it could be around 10dpo meaning its your current partners. But of course the only definite test is a DNA test

What made you test today?