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12 week scan fears after miscarriage

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MRSE20 · 26/10/2022 15:22

I lost twins in April at 9 weeks. I lost hope for being a mum one day but I am very grateful to say I am currently 12 weeks pregnant and have my scan Friday.
I am so so nervous that this scan will be bad news as well
Not sure what I want from posting this, maybe just a hand hold or others who understand this horrible anxiety (after loss or not!)

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tayyaba123 · 26/10/2022 15:30

MRSE20 · 26/10/2022 15:22

I lost twins in April at 9 weeks. I lost hope for being a mum one day but I am very grateful to say I am currently 12 weeks pregnant and have my scan Friday.
I am so so nervous that this scan will be bad news as well
Not sure what I want from posting this, maybe just a hand hold or others who understand this horrible anxiety (after loss or not!)

Hi

I'm very sorry to hear that.

Congratulations on reaching the 12 month mark. You're doing great. Remain positive and I'm sure all will be fine. Don't let the anxiety of the past trauma to impact your pregnancy. Be happy and positive all will work out for you.

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IWillBeWaxingAnOwl · 26/10/2022 17:22

Hi @MRSE20 , you're welcome to join us on our pregnancy after miscarriage due April/may thread where many of us are at this point anxious looking towards the 12 week scan www.mumsnet.com/talk/pregnancy/4616195-due-aprilmay-after-mc?page=22&reply=121016879

Cakecakecheese · 26/10/2022 21:49

I was an absolute mess in the run up to my 12 week scan due to previous losses. The relief was immense.

I hope everything goes well on Friday x

LovelyNanny26 · 28/10/2022 08:33

Hi Guys.I will be 5 weeks pregnant on Monday and I'm so nervous due to previous miscarriage at 9 weeks.It's going to be a stressful time until Christmas.I want to start organising the maternity care but I'm too scared.I have started to bleed after my 9 week appointment.How is everyone else getting on?

Mariabombia · 28/10/2022 11:20

Hi,
I'm 7 and 6 today after a mc at 9 weeks in July. I'm absolutely petrified of going to any scan and hearing bad news. I've not booked an early scan with this one as I'm just too scared. The thought of the 12 week scan makes me feel ill although I can't even imagine getting to 12 weeks at this point as I just feel so anxious after the mc.
Hope your scan goes perfectly today @MRSE20 sending you a handhold xx

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