Really struggling

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Does anyone know when I go for my midwife appointment if I discuss feeling terrible about this pregnancy (mentally and physically) what will happen?
Will they consider other people need to be involved or would they just offer support? If so what can they actually do other than say it will be okay in the end?

I'm sorry you're feeling like this. Just offering a bump for you. I'm not sure exactly but I believe they can direct you to support. It is very common to struggle in pregnancy - mental health is challenging for so many people and the chemical, physical and life changes can be so so much to cope with.

Hopefully someone with more info will come along soon.

Thank you @PartridgeCoop, I just wanted to know who would be involved other than the midwife.

I already have a terrible consultant and I’m not sure I can be bothered with more intervention if it won’t help.

Hello,
I hope you are feeling better today. As said above, I’m not sure what their actions will be but don’t panic. Be honest about how you feel (never be too honest with certain professionals is my advice) and let them help you. How you’re feeling is normal and you should not feel ashamed for that. You obviously have your reasons for feeling the way you do and I hope that you will get offered the support you need. Please let us know what you decide to do x