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Heavy bleeding and cramps 4 weeks

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Melio90 · 01/10/2022 18:08

Hey, know this has probably been discussed a million times but I need to vent. I found out Wednesday morning that I was pregnant. Faint positive on a cheapie and 1-2 on clearblue digital, Wednesday night started spotting Thursday got a little more and by early hours of Friday I had strong period like cramps and heavy bleeding. I have spoken to epu twice and been told it is a miscarriage but to test in a week if its negative just to leave it but if its still positive to ring them. I feel totally in limbo. In my heart I don't feel pregnant but I also am still clinging to what little hope there might be :(

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Skippy90 · 01/10/2022 18:59

I'm so sorry you're going through this! I wonder whether you could speak to your GP and see whether they can help at all? I was in absolute pieces and my GP didn't want to make me wait for another 2 weeks so got me a referral for a scan at EPU the next day. They also took bloods there.
I am keeping everything crossed for you and hope that you can get some clarity asap! X

Melio90 · 01/10/2022 19:31

Thank you! I'm just so confused. I didn't have any pregnancy symptoms but now suddenly my boobs are huge and rock solid, I didn't know that could happen with a miscarriage. I thought you had to be over 6 weeks to get a scan?! I will see how the week pans out. I plan to retest when the bleeding stops if this is before Friday but we shall see. I just don't want to be clinging on to hope when there isn't any really 😕

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SiberFox · 01/10/2022 20:04

So sorry @Melio90. When I was having a chemical - bleeding/cramps I still had some pregnancy symptoms like sore boobs and nausea so like you, I was really confused. They went away when I stopped bleeding heavily. You’re right that you won’t see anything on a scan atm. The only thing they could do is measure HCG in your bloods but they generally won’t do it that early. I was testing negative on a home test already when the heavy bleeding started. Take care of yourself, it’s horrible x

HakunaMatata4 · 01/10/2022 20:23

I experienced something similar a few weeks ago. I had no symptoms at all but ended up doing a test and got 1-2 weeks on digital, I did have light spotting but tested a couple of days later and got 2-3 weeks. I rang epau as was concerned and they got me in the same day to have an ultrasound (too early to see anything) and HCG blood test, I ended up having 2 blood tests a week for 4/5 weeks as it took a while for my HCG level to reduce

ColinRobinsonsfamiliar · 01/10/2022 20:27

Hi. Just wanted to say that it took me between 4-5 weeks after all bleeding stopped and miscarriage was complete to get a negative test.
I believe that residual pregnancy hormones can hang around for a long time.
It’s a confusing time, but I wish someone had told me this e we Jen it happened to me so I knew.

jessiexo · 01/10/2022 20:29

I experienced the same thing last month. I tested positive on a Friday, by Monday I was spotting which then turned into a lot of bleeding and then by Friday the bleeding stopped and I had a negative pregnancy test! It was too early to get a EPU referral by GP as I was literally 4 weeks so I kind of had to wait it out. It was a horrid experience and I was mentally exhausted! The only positive I took from that was that I knew I was able to get pregnant even though it didn't go the right way that time. Keep strong and surround yourself with loved ones 🥰

Glitterandunicorns · 01/10/2022 20:33

I'm sorry OP. I have had three losses myself and I know how scary it is when you start bleeding.
As others have said, a scan won't help you as it's too early to see anything. The only thing anyone might do is blood tests a couple of days apart, but they're more likely to tell you to give it a week and test again.
I'm sorry. I know that the waiting is horrific. Flowers

Melio90 · 02/10/2022 16:05

Thanks everyone. The bleeding has really slowed down now so just need to wait to test. Really tempted to now but I'm scared to see a positive so best to wait till Friday. I'm thankful it's happened now and not further on, I have a 2 year old daughter so I'm thankful for her too

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