argh. i dont want to be preg anymore

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due in a couple of weeks. just had blazing row with DH. am now tied to him forever. and the baby forever.

Awww what happened? im sure you wouldnt want to give up the little one just cuz u had row eh?xxxxxx

becoming a mother is scary. Falling out with the person who is supposed to be doing the scary thing with you is also pretty terrifying. It's normal to feel freaked out now. Take it easy, get some rest and if the clouds don't lift a bit tomorrow call your midwife for a chat. Whether you're with your dh forever is up to you - but yes your baby is here for keeps. Right now - they are dependant on you for their every heartbeat - terrifying isn't it - but wonderful too.

oh, its just cr*p, row about bullshit, i just feel overwhelmed by the level of committment this whole thing involves.

Aw poor you. Your hormones are raging and you're probably feeling very tired, very sore and very fed up.

Tell your DH you need a hug and things will look brighter in the morning. This is the worst stage of pregnancy ime, but in a couple of weeks you will have your LO who you will want to be tied to forever anyway, and you will have new found love for your DH for producing this lovely little being together with you.

Be gentle on yourself

Hell yeh jeysus the committment thing is here to stay, is this your first? you'll feel so differently when its born, all will be forgotten, your at a difficult time too, only a few wks to go u must sooooooooooooooo be ready to get it out now, chin up, eat some chocolate and chill out x x x x

I rememeber going through a similar stage. I would stare at DH slobbed out in his joggers or messily eating something and just think what have I done. It passes.

If its your first it is a huge adjustment and a feeling you need to get used to BUT an amazing one. I rememeber several times thinking I wanted to take the bump off and run screaming! Even in the first few weeks of DS being born I was still a bit freaked out and wanted to run screaming down the road sometimes lol. I would have ALWAYS come back though as I would have missed him after about, oooh, 30 seconds?

You adjust and grow as a new family and life does change yes but I think infinitely to the better. Although it can take you a little time to see this sometimes!

Im guessing you loved him a few days ago and Im not surprised you are on edge with a huge bump. You are nearly there now!

xx

ty all. he was very sweet this morning and apologise. i know it would prob be ok, even without him. but this all seems so final