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Had a miscarriage

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Ladybug4023 · 17/08/2022 13:55

And for whoever wrote LOL on my last post about a POSSIBLE miscarriage, disrespectfully, I hope you have a horrible day.
A genuine thank you to all that have put up with my NUMEROUS posts regarding this rainbow baby. A rude and sarcastic thank you to the ones that made me feel bad about it.
Given this is my fourth miscarriage, I guess some of us aren't meant to have children. Though I am hurting bad right now, I appreciate the kind souls that helped me on this app and I wish just those and those alike, a very happy day and baby dust to all on this Thread.

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OldTinHat · 17/08/2022 13:58

I've not seen your other posts, but just wanted to say I'm so sorry. Sending you unmumsnetty hugs at such a difficult time.

SlagathaChristie · 17/08/2022 14:04

I'm so sorry for your loss OP x

Batbatbatty · 17/08/2022 14:04

Sorry to hear that OP.

I'm not entirely sure who was mean to you on your other threads?? (apart from one poster whose message was immediately deleted anyway..). Responses in kind are not helpful though either. 😕

Since you've had several early losses (chemicals and miscarriages), have you already tried baby aspirin and progesterone pessaries? Or thought about trying them?

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Ladybug4023 · 17/08/2022 14:05

@OldTinHat Thank you 💜

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Ladybug4023 · 17/08/2022 14:06

@SlagathaChristie Thank you 💜

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Ladybug4023 · 17/08/2022 14:09

@Batbatbatty Thank you. Yes, it was deleted thankfully but unfortunately when I awoke to read my HCG results, I had the notification of the comment as well. I guess I'm a bit vulnerable.

I have been told about the baby aspirin and the progesterone pills. I read mixed reviews of progesterone pills and how they can cause birth defects (?) I suppose I should have just done it and I probably will if I ever fall pregnant again...I don't know if I'm going to try any time soon as it currently feels that my heart just can't handle the hurt again.

I hope that changes.

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been and done it. · 17/08/2022 14:09

Ladybug4023 · 17/08/2022 13:55

And for whoever wrote LOL on my last post about a POSSIBLE miscarriage, disrespectfully, I hope you have a horrible day.
A genuine thank you to all that have put up with my NUMEROUS posts regarding this rainbow baby. A rude and sarcastic thank you to the ones that made me feel bad about it.
Given this is my fourth miscarriage, I guess some of us aren't meant to have children. Though I am hurting bad right now, I appreciate the kind souls that helped me on this app and I wish just those and those alike, a very happy day and baby dust to all on this Thread.

Very sorry for your loss.a sad time for you all x

In regards to the lol...my friend uses this all the time - she thinks its 'lots of love' - she told me about a sad event and ended it the same way..I realised what she meant and she confirmed it.

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Ladybug4023 · 17/08/2022 14:11

@been and done it. ah, you know...I didn't even think of that...crap. You're probably right.

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Ladybug4023 · 17/08/2022 14:12

@been and done it. And thank you 💜 I don't normally stoop to a level of giving that energy anyway but I guess I'm feeling a bit defeated.

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Scorpio8 · 17/08/2022 17:01

@Ladybug4023

I am really sorry to hear this.

People on here shouldn't be responding to posts of people genuinely concerned with their pregnancy. After a sick comment I had on mine. Some people need to be totally banned from MN.

Sending a hug to you and take it easy.

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Ladybug4023 · 18/08/2022 14:19

@Scorpio8 So sorry you experienced that and thank you. Virtual hugs sent, ❤️

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