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No baby bump at 25 weeks

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leah3 · 17/07/2022 13:31

Hello everyone,

Im 25 weeks in 2 days with my first baby. She’s kicking and very active so I’m super happy about that. But my bump is sooooo small, especially for being sixth months pregnant! I could easily go out in a tight fitting dress and would just look like I’ve ate a big meal. Def not an obvious baby bump. Anyone else? :( it’s really getting me down. So tired of the “omg, u only look about 3/4 months, omg you’re tiny, where’s your bump” comments.

for reference, I’m size 10 and about 5’7. Any advice or comments would be appreciated

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leah3 · 17/07/2022 13:31

Six months* not sixth

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theotherfossilsister · 17/07/2022 13:33

My bump is tiny too and I'm thirty four weeks. It sounds silly but I hate that I don't look pregnant. I'm in an NCT class with women who are behind me and they have lovely bumps. Love my baby so much though.

Carlichimp · 17/07/2022 13:34

I was the same with my first, I just looked a bit chunky until about 8 months. I wish people wouldn’t comment on it, it’s not helpful.

If you have a second you won’t have this problem again, your abs will be never be the same!

20viona · 17/07/2022 13:34

I'm 31 weeks with my second and look very small only just getting any hint of a bump. I was the same with my first, I don't care though, less to lose after 🤣

leah3 · 17/07/2022 13:37

Thanks so much all

@20viona this is definitely true lol! As long as my baby is growing as she should be, I’m happy but the small bump puts doubt in my head :(

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20viona · 17/07/2022 13:38

My daughter was only 5lb 3oz i was induced at 37 weeks with her. Measurements so far for this baby are looking similar. Plus side, I was in my jeans 4 days after giving birth last time.

leah3 · 17/07/2022 13:41

@20viona thank you, this is reassuring 🙌🏾

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Snowflakes1122 · 17/07/2022 13:42

Maybe a combination of height and strong stomach muscles?

Enjoy it, I’d say. The bump will gradually get bigger, and in this heat, a bigger bump is more uncomfortable in my experience.

RandomMess · 17/07/2022 13:43

You probably have a long torso and your tummy muscles are good!

LightandMomentary · 17/07/2022 13:46

My friend and I used to have this - our DDs were due within 2 weeks of each other and I had a large bump and she looked like she'd eaten a big meal, until about 32 weeks. At that point she almost overnight went from big meal to really big bump. We decided that it was due to 'pelvic room'. I have no discernable curves and she is very much an hourglass and both of us are tall.

Ohmydayssilleople · 17/07/2022 13:50

My daughter had a no existent bump at 38 weeks when she was induced!! Everyone who had examined her said she had a really strong abdominal muscles.
Baby was 7 lbs when she was born…really try and not worry.X

leah3 · 17/07/2022 13:52

Thank you so much everyone, hopefully it’s just strong stomach muscles 🤞🏼 I feel her kicks are getting stronger so something must be right 😃

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DangerouslyBored · 17/07/2022 14:06

I’ve had this as well. A woman at work is the same gestation as me and her bump is huge. She keeps commenting on how small my bump is 🙄 Personally I love my neat bump! I was measured by the midwife and she said I’m right on cue so I’m not worried. She commented that I have abs of steel which would account for the ‘neatness’.

My v slim and athletic gran didn’t show at all 🤷🏻‍♀️

DappledThings · 17/07/2022 15:17

Totally normal. I only switched from my normal jeans to maternity ones at 25 weeks.

anonanonanon123 · 17/07/2022 15:22

I still got in my normal size 8 jeans till
27 weeks no real bump till at least 32 wks prob more like 34/35. I only gained 9lbs (Thanks HG) and baby was 7lb5 born at 38+5. Oh I also had a growth scan for small bump about 35weeks and they said he was fine I was just neat

Kisskiss · 17/07/2022 15:25

My bump measured small all the way - freaked out when the midwife plotted it at 2 percentile on growth charts..kept getting sent for emergency scans due to how small I was, but everything was totally fine thank god
if there’s any issues they will know, as other have said, if you have a long torso, strong abs etc you can just look small all the way!

GuidingSpirit · 17/07/2022 15:36

I think being tall definitely helps! Im 5'8 and i was told all along my pregnancy that i had a "really neat" bump (even though i still felt like a whale at the end). And i was def not a size 10 to begin with. 🤣 But when DD was born she was just 5lb 12oz so i think I genuinely just did have a small bump! Hasn't helped me get back in my jeans any quicker though 😳

Beanniebaby22 · 17/07/2022 15:44

Currently 22 weeks over here and I am plus sized. I can feel where my bump is (under my belly fat 😅) but I don’t think I look pregnant to people who don’t know, just chunky.
I am 5’4” very short torso, size 20 and first baby. Really hoping the bump will round out a bit in the next few weeks. People in work keep commenting that I haven’t got big yet and that am not wearing maternity uniforms 🙄 it does get annoying.

leah3 · 17/07/2022 15:59

Thank you everyone! I have a growth scan at 32 weeks due to low Papp-a anyway so hopefully then, they’ll confirm all is good!

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sleepdeprived321 · 17/07/2022 16:01

I didn't get a bump until about 30 weeks!

HappyGoDucky · 17/07/2022 16:19

I had no bump with either of my 2 DC, I just kind of lost my waist and went a bit rectangular. DC 1 was 1 week overdue and 7lb5 and DC 2 was 2 weeks overdue and 7lb 13 so average sized babies.

People didn't realise I was pregnant, I was in for a blood test and was sitting I the waiting area and I was asked to give up my seat for the pregnant lady, I refused and told them I was 39 weeks myself. Hospital security even tried moving me until they realised what my blood tests were for!

Coachwork · 17/07/2022 16:33

I suffer badly from allergies. I went into anaphylaxis and DH rushed me to the A&E. My throat was closing and I couldn't speak.

The doctor asked if there was a chance I could be pregnant, 'yes.' DH replied. The next question was when was I due, to which DH responded Saturday. DC1 arrived seven days later weighing over eight pounds.

I have three DC and have never had a noticeable bump with any of them. I also didn't go above a size 10.

PermanentlyTired03 · 17/07/2022 16:52

I was the same with my first. I looked bloated and a bit podgy for ages. Then in a space of about 2 weeks I developed a huge bump!

Dyra · 17/07/2022 17:29

Admittedly I'm obese, but you couldn't tell I was pregnant until well after 30 weeks with my first. Then all of a sudden I had a huge bump! You could tell almost immediately with my second.

leah3 · 17/07/2022 19:14

Wow, I had no idea how common it is! I feel so much more reassured. Thank you to everyone! 💖

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