Pregnancy Advice

[JFBMac]

I need some advice. I have just found out tonight I am pregnant using the early clear blue digital test. I still haven't told my husband. We have two previous miscarriages at 9 weeks. So I feel deflated. Is this normal? :-(

Congratulations 🎊
I miscarried in February and found out 3 days ago that we are pregnant again.
Totally normal to feel the way you do, I'm finding it hard to be excited x

Thank you - that makes me feel better. My last miscarriage was March and the last 3 months have been so horrible physically getting back to normal. I finally feel back to normal and here we go again. So, so hard trying to be positive!

I've had covid this week and found out that I was pregnant half way through and I feel so drained like I did before, so scared of going through another miscarriage, hopefully it will ease x

It's so horrible isn't it? I honestly feel that I'll never be a mum, and everyone seems to be like it'll be fine next time.. but I don't feel the same! It's nice to see someone else who gets it. Hope you feel better. 💕

Pregnancy after loss is so difficult and it's totally understandable not to feel excited. Your feelings are completely valid. I recently had my second baby after the first was sadly stillborn and truly didn't believe that we would have a living baby until we did. During the pregnancy I did try to tell myself regularly that the odds are more likely that everything will be OK than not, when you've only known loss it can be hard to believe it however. Take it one day at a time and hopefully before long they will build up. Wishing you all the very best.

What a lovely message. Thank you! 💕 I am so, so sorry for your loss sunshine. Your message has helped more than you know. ❤ x