Unplanned pregnancy

[starryeyed18]

Hi everyone I'm new here as I genuinely have nobody to talk to about this...

I have had 2 angel babies and my rainbow baby both angel babies my waters broke at 26 weeks and they sadly didn't make it I am so scared of this happening again I just dont know what to do for the best I sound horrible saying that but my head is a mess and I'm just lost sorry if this post upsets or angers anyone I just needed to talk

I'm so sorry you had to go through that twice. Do you mean that you are pregnant now with your rainbow baby? Or you have a child and are pregnant again?

I would assume with it happening twice that there was some sort of investigation as to why it happens, and that you are under consultant care (if you're pregnant for the third time now?)

Sorry that made no sense did it 🙈
My first was my angel baby
My second was my rainbow baby
My third was my second angel baby
I've never had any investigations after they pretty much had me out of there but both angel babies were growing and otherwise healthy

It's tricky....without knowing what happened to make you miscarry so late in 2 pregnancies....I can understand why you are apprehensive. Something chromosomal perhaps?

I'm not sure what you're asking or what advice you're after, but if you do decide to go ahead with this pregnancy I'd suggest asking to be closely monitored, and tested for whatever they think could've cause the previous miscarriages.

And of course, if it is just too much, you don't have to continue with a pregnancy.